My husband makes me so mad most days. I love him i just dont know if i want to be married to him any more! He is the "type" that wants the "single life" and the "married life" at the same time. Most women know what i am talking about! Please do not make smart A@& remarks!!!
2006-08-29 02:40:01 · 7 answers · asked by bdmrplemons 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, sit down and have a heart to heart with him. If he wants to be married, then you two need to be able to come to some sort of compromise; like he can't go out every night of the week. You don't say how long you have been married, or your age, but it sounds like you two are young and you probably should have had this type of conversation when the behavior first started - it's hard to say after months and years that you don't like it. Good Luck!
2006-08-29 02:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by working mom of 3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I am single man,I can have women as more I can.If I am single, I can have many friends as I want; and also I can go to all party I want and I can come back from those parties the next day If I please.As a single man I can drink,and spend money as I want.As a single man (single life),I can do whatever I want,and nobody can complain to me about it.combine single life with married life is a big mistake,and is impossible to do it.I will be a lier,if I tell other meaning for single life.Some men combine single and married life,because what they call single life is not the same they have before married.They dream to be free again.Good luck.women and men have this problem in their marriages.If you are mad,you have all the right to be mad.sometimes men never change and that cost them to end their marriage in divorce.
2006-08-29 02:58:36 · answer #2 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This means that you should sit him down and make some specific ground rules. If he doesn't agree to them, then I would say it is time to move on. Don't let him continue to treat you badly. Living life in frustration is not good for you. Find some happiness and peace.
2006-08-29 02:46:20 · answer #3 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well,i gues sit with him and have a chat over this,get to know what is he expecting and if its acceptable to you,go agead with it or else just move on....you cant let someone treat you like a doll at there own pace.....even if hes your husband he needs to know that he has to give love and respect to get the same back!!
2006-08-29 03:24:49 · answer #4 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should sit down with him and discuss this with him. tell him straight and plain that you do not like his way of living and if he does not agree to change or try to change his habits, then it is time to move on and out of this relationship. u deserve someone who can love you and treat you better.
2006-08-29 02:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by trushka 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him to choose weather he wants to act like a child or be a man. one or the other.
2006-08-29 02:49:17 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Totally understand. If you figure it out let me know.
2006-08-29 03:58:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋