today i saw in my fathers phine a video conversation bt him & some lady .i also saw it.i couldnt believe my senses because i discovered that my dad has a affair!!!! they've gone far away in their relationship.should i tell my mum about this????
pleze help>>>>>>>>>>
2006-08-29 02:26:34 · 15 answers · asked by star9 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should confront your dad first. Then tell your mom. Don't just tell her, have proof so she will believe you.
2006-08-29 02:38:09 · answer #1 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would speak to your father about it first before breaking the news to your mother. It may be possible to remedy the situation without hurting your mother. You should try your best to get him on the right track.
I'm sorry to hear this because it's always bad for the kids when their father has an affair, but you seem mature enough to handle t well. Good luck :)
2006-08-29 09:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you must understand who u loyal to, and telling ur mom is not a crime for sure but before that having a word with ur dad and asking him to go tell ur mom is a grt idea, if u trust ur father still and if he has no Temper problems :)
2006-08-29 09:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by Mozomo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should say something. You may be surprised, she may already know. but if she doesn't she should. It isn't fair to your mother having him have relations outside of the marriage. What if he brings home a sexually transmitted disease. That's disgusting. Tell your mom how much you love her and your dad, but you need to reveal something very important to her.
Good luck
2006-08-29 09:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u think ur dad luvs ur mom ?
if he did..he wud not have had done such a thing behind her back...
do u want ur mom 2 be hurted ?
u sure do not....
before its too late...talk it out 2 ur mom before its too late
but before u do...make sure u have enough proof dat ur dad is having an affair...
2006-08-29 10:23:38 · answer #5 · answered by moooooooovin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to your Dad first, he really should be the one to tell her, not you. Give him a chance to do the right thing.
2006-08-29 09:33:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to your dad first and tell him that hes the one who needs to talk to your mom about it, if he doesn't then I would tell her.
2006-08-29 09:29:13 · answer #7 · answered by Coodles 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your dad about it first. It should not be you to tell your mother ! WOW this has to be hard for you.
2006-08-29 09:36:11 · answer #8 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Godforbid, ur father catches a disease from this woman, or any other woman for that matter... does ur mother deserve to catch it as well?
2006-08-29 09:30:06 · answer #9 · answered by Julie G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your dad if he don't tell your mom you will!! give him like 1 or 2 days then tell your mom. tell him he has only so long to tell her too.
2006-08-29 12:57:52 · answer #10 · answered by badbad_80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋