so i ran into the kitchen to get the phone thinking the house was empty i was naked. soon to my suprise the lady that cleans our house twice a month was there. when i ran into her face to face i became instantly aroused. i apologized and got dressed and left. do i tell my wife? what about when i see this lady again? the incredible turn-on that it was for me i might want to do it "accidently" again?
2006-08-29 02:17:19 · 20 answers · asked by mongo862001 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Lucy, you got some 'splainin to do...
So you have a fetish? It is exposing yourself... I would tell your wife, if she isnt the prudish type. Maybe she can help you out with other instances of exposure? Some people are exhibitinists, others like to watch. I like to watch...
2006-08-29 02:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by cici 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might want to tell your wife in case the lady does. Then it looks like you were trying to hide something. Just leave the arousal part. As for when you she her again just act like nothing happened. You can tell by the way that she acts on what she thought of it. Why don't you try to have your wife play the part of the cleaning lady. This way you are no tempting anything and not going to risk losing your wife. Not unless she is into that then good luck.
2006-08-29 02:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your wife in case the situation is brought to her attention by the cleaning lady. Forget being aroused. The whole situation was unintentional. Arousal comes not just from sexual desire, but from excitement as well. Being surprised at the unexpected sight of the cleaning lady raised your blood pressure. You did nothing wrong. If your wife is understanding, the both of you will probably get a big laugh out of this later on.
2006-08-29 02:36:45 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Grudge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give me a break. The woman works for you and her income depends on that job. Be a man and if you want some action on the side step up, tell your wife and grow up. Like she is really turned on by seeing her naked employer run for the phone. Are you so daft you do not understand that arousal is about more than seeing you without clothes. YUCK!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-29 02:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order for that little incident to cause arousal you obviously have been checking the lady out already or maybe there's a deep sexual void. You need to be real. First admit what you really want and then talk to your wife to see if she can give it to you.
2006-08-29 02:53:46 · answer #5 · answered by wannakno 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,,, you can do it accidentally again...
provided however that it does not hurt the lady of course and that your wife will not know of it..
People do have some different kind of turn-on.. a kind of perversion in us... male or female...
And that is natural... for as long as no one get hurt along the way..
But if you want,,, to tell your wife... observe first... do some story telling a lie... as if it happened to a friend,,,, and what if it happened to her... somethings like that...
Your wife may understand...
2006-08-29 02:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your wife. Do you love your wife? If you do talk to her about it. Maybe you should find another cleaning lady if you felt that way about her. It doesn't sould like anything good can come out of the feelings you felt for your cleaning lady. Unless of course you want to hurt your wife and her divorce you.
2006-08-29 03:08:39 · answer #7 · answered by jeter2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Must have thinking about something good while in shower, that's all i can say. yes i would tell your wife, don't have to mention the instant arousal bit but do tell about getting caught by the cleaner with no clothes on, she will probably think its funny if anything like my wife.
2006-08-29 02:28:20 · answer #8 · answered by Dizzy spells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't tell your wife. What she doesn't know won't hurt her.
Second of all, stay true to your wife, and don't let it happen again.
Third, read the New Testament. Look in the index in the back of the Bible for the topic, "temptation" and read the verses.
2006-08-29 02:25:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife is open sexualy, tell her everything. If she's not, then just tell her about what happened and leave out the part about being aroused.
2006-08-29 02:28:21 · answer #10 · answered by honest guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋