I think that my friend is using me when everyone else is not around or gone off and when ever im with her she always talks about thers other friends shes meet. It makes me feel like im not good enough for her.and if i lose her as a friend i will lose 5 friends and i dont want to lose any of them.How to I know that she actually is and wants to be my friend??
2006-08-29 02:04:43 · 10 answers · asked by poppy! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all friends are not people who take advantage of u n keep u around only when they need you. A friend is some one who u can count on and who will be there for you when ever u need. Having a friend is knowing that u don't have to impress or please all the time. She will be there with you no matter what. If she is a true friend then u wouldn't be worrying so much. You should be able to just be your self. If you think u cant be honest with yr Friend n that if u do u will lose the other 5 then may be they aren't true Friends at all. You shouldn't be afraid of losing friends or pleasing them all the time, that's not what a true friendship is. Be who u r!!! n if they don't like it and want u to be some one else then they aren't friends at all. Its better to find one true Friend than have 10 phonies. Think abt it !!!!!!! N good luck!!!!
2006-08-29 02:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by reality7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you would lose 5 friends just because you don't want to be with her then they can't really be your friends. It is really up to you, you can try and not be around her on your own or you could give up the lot of them and find some new friends.
2006-08-29 09:07:57 · answer #2 · answered by koolkatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think she is trying to impress you how important she is and also convince herself the same thing. This is normal behaviour don't take that too seriously.
You see it's almost impossible to know who is your friend and who is not. The life and circumstances can change many things the way that you couldn't predict before, so try to relax and don't worry about this things - enjoy the present! You can't change the past and you can't predict the future, but you can control your present.
2006-08-29 09:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by khanzadian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had the same thing. I went through a lot of friends that used me... then i met a friend that stuck with me through thick and thin. So i think if the worst hapens, somthing good may come out of it later.
2006-08-29 09:12:00 · answer #4 · answered by Axel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she isn't a friend at all for you to ask this question.
2006-08-29 09:07:12 · answer #5 · answered by Dragon Empress 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree with Khanzadin point of view, but rm-ember friend like golden coin rarely.
2006-08-29 09:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by mile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just know her and HER friends. Get your own.
2006-08-29 09:08:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
deal with it or LEAVE HER. your human that has feelings you shouldn't be any where you are uncomfortable.
2006-08-29 09:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by Punk_Rockin' Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hire someone you trust to spy on her.
2006-08-29 09:07:27 · answer #9 · answered by shongo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give it time
2006-08-29 09:06:52 · answer #10 · answered by chrisp972000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋