I'm 33 married woman. I have a question about complex situation of my younger brother (27). He was a nice, jolly, handsome sportsman and very caring and loving too all. I had always great understanding with him and on my husband's request he lives with us as he himself has to be on buisness tours frequently. I was not much worried finding out my brother was into flirtious acts with number of gals but considered it a normal thing for guys. I start worrying when he start getting isolated and spending most of time in his room. Too boot, he suddenly announced he wont marry his fiance without giving any reason. finally I decided to talk to him and after a lot of hesitation he scummbed to pressure and admitted that he got addicted of self-pleasure while having immoral sexual thoughts in mind. He also confessed that he started it with suggession of a doctor and get addicted and now do it 3 or four time daily. Hes afraid he has nothing left in him to be married now. Please help me..
2006-08-29 02:03:26 · 4 answers · asked by samera 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
for freinds how are helping me, he did not tell me whats his immoral thoughts but i found incest movies from his drawers..and brother-sister stories
2006-08-29 02:23:13 · update #1
Tell your brother to go get the Homeopathic Remedy ACID PHOS 1X and take two drops in a glass full of water thrice a day along his meals he will be okay in a few days Mentally and Physically, trust me nothing works better in this situation then this gem of remedy.No side Effects or Complications.
Take Care and God Bless !
2006-08-29 03:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
This could be a serious mental health problem that your brother must face. Although the self-pleasure itself is not a problem, it sounds like your brother has terrible guilt feelings about it. He must be made to understand that he has plenty to give to a woman and that his habit does not make him evil. He probably won't marry his fiance' because of his shame. Or else he is using this story about the self-pleasure because he doesn't want to marry his fiance' for other reasons. The only way you can help him is to listen to him and support him with your love and understanding.
2006-08-29 09:18:35 · answer #2 · answered by Ms T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you don't need that in your home. He is your brother, and you have a husband and I hope a family, and that comes first. He is an adult, he has to move out. I would be very worried of having my children around him.
When he is out, you can contact a therapist for you. If he asks for help, give him the therapist number.
2006-08-29 12:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by avll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants to bang you and is feeling really bad about it.
Some people get into different things: BDSM, Beastiality, incest, etc...
Talk to him about it. Get it out in the open, and then maybe he will move on.
2006-08-29 10:04:27 · answer #4 · answered by barter256 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋