i have a young teenage friend .he is 19 years old cute white boy. he married a a young girl she is just 18 from india bangalore but she&her parents are uk citizens now. guy also same place i mean he is a next street..this is a love&arrange marriage first they both loved each other with parents agree now they both got married.particular girl is following the indian tradition&culture because she is a indian girl.now the problem is 1st this girl is virgin particular boy also virgin guy if all belive or not.this indian girl have a some kind of shy to do sex with her young husband.i thing may be she have a some kind of frightness.still this both didnt celebrate the 1st night.this guy dont like to force this girl same time he dont like to tell this matter to his parents&her parents.because he is love her so much.now more then 1 month.now how to handle the sitaution quite intresting stage.how to solve this young couple problem
2006-08-29 01:49:30 · 12 answers · asked by moon walker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i know this is not a my problem.just i asked advise and opinions of you all.so i can help him.i told he is a my friend and he told this problem to me and asked good solution or idea..that's why i put this question.
2006-08-29 02:07:07 · update #1
They should discuss this together and agree to get their parents involved. It is the role of his mother inlaw to educate her daughter on what to do on the first night and the nights after.that.
2006-08-29 02:19:00 · answer #1 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 19:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a virgin when you get married is very stressful for the couple. I had a friend marry a virgin and she was too scared to have sex on their honeymoon. Then when they did start having sex she cheated on him with all kinds of men. Anyhow I can imagine being arranged in a marriage then expected to have sex. I'd be scared to in that situation.
2006-09-02 19:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by anjelahoy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear you are having such a problem..I mean your friend is having such a problem. I can't imagine being set up into marriage, I think i would be so very uncomfortable in the sexual part also. Feeling that you have to have for that kind of relationship will take time. Give the women time..
2006-08-29 01:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really shouldn't get in their business like that.Of course it is an arranged marriage at a young age.Things will take it's course and when the time is right they will be ready.It's nice to be concerned about your friend,but it is really up to the married couple.I wish them both luck with everything.
2006-09-03 20:36:54 · answer #5 · answered by JESSICA F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the parents should have gave both of them a sex talk before marriage.
2006-08-29 01:53:44 · answer #6 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your problem, so back off. Eventually, they will copulate; it's nature. Hard to keep from happening when two live together. They get undressed and
see each othes body, get hot, and go at it. leave them alone.
p.s. Try punctuation; makes sentences easier to read, and the meaning clearer.
2006-08-29 01:57:47 · answer #7 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man, I can't wait till all the little kids go back to school.
STAY OUT OF YOUR FRIEND'S LIFE - his marriage is none of your business.
2006-08-29 02:19:29 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at this age they both to young to be married any way he needs to give her more time and be understanding about the situation
2006-09-02 13:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by jolie minouche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they need to talk about it comunication is the key to any problem so the more they talk about it the better they feel about it and the sooner he can get some
2006-08-29 02:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋