OK, when I am listening some of my mates while they are talking about where-to-go-this-saturday and where-to-find-some-chicks, I feel proudly distanced. As an intellectual, I don't want to be part of their petty issues, rumour, and go-out-lately-and-drink style of life.
But still, when I am listening to them, I feel kind of anxious, like I 'm afraid that there is nobody like me, like I need support from real-life character.
For instance, if same thing happened when I was with my close friend from childhood, (which is similiar to me), I would felt differently. Proud of who I am, pround of my lifestyles and full of self-esteem.
Why is that that in presence in some of my childhood-close-friends I feel proud and full of myself. When they aren't here, I am somehow lost.
*Note 1: I am 15. Note 2: iS it ok? Note 3: Thanks in advance
2006-08-29 01:17:50 · 6 answers · asked by ciomlol 1 in News & Events ➔ Current Events
Just be yourself and go with the flow.
Don't be a follower ,be your own person,and you will be happier.
2006-08-29 01:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are many different types of people in the world and quite often we grow apart from our childhood friends as we get older and start to discover who we are. you will find people with the same views as you but your friends are important because they give you the comfort of being around people you know and who know you. you don't need to have the same opinions and views to be friends with someone. but you will find more people out there who share your views.
it is perfectly normal to feel a bit lost at your age also, it is a time in your life when everything is changing. you are becoming an adult and responsible for things you do. don't worry just relax have a good time and try to seek out some new friends also who enjoy doing the same sorts of things as you on the weekend.
but still enjoy your other friends as variety is the spice of life!!
2006-08-29 08:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by ricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone at some point in his/her life goes through periods of feeling insecure. I think you're just on a different level in some ways (maturity) than many of your friends. That doesn't mean you don't still have a lot in common with them in other ways. Just realize that what you're going through is perfectly normal, and relax.
2006-08-29 08:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by clarity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody has self-esteem at 15. You're just trying to get your head on straight while you battle hormones. It sounds like you've got a head start on your friends as far as maturity goes. Don't be afraid to be yourself. If they don't like you they don't like you. If they do like you they like the real you.
2006-08-29 08:25:07 · answer #4 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a normal thing to feel insecure when you are alone, especially alone in a crowd and most especially when you are a teen. You will gain confidence with age and most likely find more friends who share your interests.
2006-08-29 08:22:14 · answer #5 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure if you really need psychological help. It sounds to me like you are out-growing your friends. Perhaps you are just more mentally mature than they are and this is what is causing you to feel a distance. Do what you feel comfortable with. Go out with them if you like and decline if you don't.
Good Luck
2006-08-29 08:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by MoMattTexas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋