Do you feel that exmarital relationship is bad? if yes why?

Question

normally people say that its ok for guys but not good for women. is it so? if not then for whom its good and for whom its bad.

Answer 1

it is bad for everybody. if there is something you want to do but can't look into your partner's eyes and discuss with them, it is wrong. cheating and lying is wrong. what goes around comes around. think with the upper head.

Answer 2

Polygamy not accepted in many present day civil societies. This could have existed centuries back but there is no need for this in the present day society.

All activities or happenings are basically justified because of the basic needs. Since extra-marital relationship not anymore a basic need, we dont require extra-marital relationship.

Basically what is right for males should be right for females and vice versa barring few exception. We dont talk about exceptions here.

Marital relationship is formed based on mutual love and consent with a oath to protect the relationship. I am not talking religiously but legally. Anything extra beyond what is allowed is illegal.

In many countries this relationship is formed after spending some time intimately and understanding each other between two adults. So any of them breaks it, they knew consequences of breaking it.

I consider that extramarital relationship is not warranted since there is no requirement for it.

Answer 3

I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say it's bad because it's OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE . Yah that whole wedding ceremony where you said I DO and that you would be faithful & loving and all that! Yah bet it cost a pretty penny for it too. When you are in a marriage you love and trust the other person and they should not be out screwing someone else. Why get married in the first place if you are not really into monogomy

Answer 4

It is never good. Only the immature and selfish dabble in an exmarital affair. You make a committment through marriage you set an example for your children. If you cheat on your wife you are also cheating on your children. If you want something on the side then stay single. Don't marry if you can't control yourself. Don't bring down a bunch of people just because you can't control yourself.

Answer 5

At over 40 years old I now feel an extramarital affair can truly save a marriage from immediate divorce. I didn't used to feel that way. However some spouses have simply no interest in sex - so why should those of us who have interest be starved? Sex is human touch. If my spouse won't provide it I no longer see harm in finding that part of life elsewhere. Woman or man.

Answer 6

Marriage is an institution build on faith and trust between two persons, and if any one of it , goes out of it and get into another relation, which u call as extramarital relation, is against the ethics of marriage. Now , good for man and bad for woman is just out of the dictionary of man dominating society. So my dear friend if u want u r partner to be loyal, and faithful, try one to be such !!!

Answer 7

An extra marital affair is cheating with your partner, It cannot be right for either of man or woman. As to why it is bad, just try thinkinh about it if that would happen to you??? Got some sense??

Answer 8

the only time it is OK (IMHO) is when both the man and woman discuss in advance and agree that it is OK for both parties to do it. When this is agreed upon in advance by both parties then I believe it is OK to do, but only in that case. If either party says no, then the answer is no. It is never right to do it in secret behind your partner's back, that is unfair and cheating and decietful.

Answer 9

exmaital relation is suerly bad.cheating around to ur wife is not a fair thing.if ur wife have a exmartial affair, u wont tolerate it and may be go for divorce.if its bad for women than its bad for men also.

Answer 10

Those type of relationships are never good. Innocent people get hurt.