2006-08-29 00:33:28 · 12 answers · asked by N O 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
mmm, Whom I will select ?
Can I put on vote ?
Thank you very much all.
2006-09-04 02:22:11 · update #1
What does being a girl have to do with it?
Let me tell you a story: once upon a time - this was about 27 years ago I guess - I used to lie to my parents about whether I got to school on time. Then one day - and this was at a moment when I had recently become convinced that God exists, and made a conscious decision to worship Him (after all, that's what you do with a deity, right?) - I was thinking about this, and it came to me: What can my parents do to me which would make it worthwhile to keep lying like this? And the answer was... Nothing.
Well, not even ten minutes after I reached this conclusion, the phone rings. It's Mom calling from work to check in. And what do you think she asks? You got it...
'Did you get to school on time?'
Well, I gave the answer I always gave. Without even thinking about it - it had become so automatic.
So Mom pursues the matter: 'Are you sure about that?'
Well, by this time I'd had time to think about it, so I took a deep breath and admitted, 'No, Mom, I'm sorry, I'm not sure...'
Some years later, my grandma told me that Mom now swears by my every word... Not that I approve of swearing. The Bible says 'Let your yes be yes, and your no be no. Anything else is from the devil.'(*) Which is why Quakers won't swear even in court, even if the consequences will be a jail sentence. And I'm a Quaker in pretty much everything except the name - in large measure because I agree with their understanding of how to live - the so-called 'Testimonies'(2).
And now I invite you to guess my gender :>
2006-08-29 00:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by songkaila 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Especially if it is a girl" ?
What ? You threw that in to get a rise out of someone ? Hell, honey, how do you even KNOW it is is a girl ? How do you really know how old they are ? How do they really know that you're a ....oops, sorry, got carried away there.
Point is that anybody who relies solely on the Internet for their social interaction and the marketplace of their romantic interests is doomed to failure. As convenient as online dating may be, it's not going to deliver artificially what isn't happening naturally. Comfortable interactions are what will produce solid relationships, and getting comfortable is something best accomplished slowly, platonically and offline.
On-line communications lack almost everything - they lack spontaneity...there is no give-and-take where you can react immediately. When you converse on-line, you get to look at your words and see if you are responding to the other person (or, conversely, if you are being safe and responding but hiding from that person). When you converse on line, you get to contemplate what you say and craft it. That is just not what happens in person to person conversations and that is exactly what tells you what another person is like - how they respond to you when they don't have time to think about it.
What you miss in on-line conversations is body language, voice inflection, hand gestures, pauses....all the things that communicate who and what about a person. They say that a conversation is less than 20% verbal - - - that, in fact, most of the information that gets communicated in a conversation is communicated non-verbally.
You can trust an on-liine friend as much as they can trust you.
2006-08-29 00:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by two 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
trust is the last thing u give to a person, be it a boy or a girl
2006-08-29 00:41:34 · answer #3 · answered by dede 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A girl you can trust becoz though she tries to keep all her information secret but she will be truthful.
Trust me.
2006-09-03 18:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by NANI 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u cant trust a person whom u vent seen,havent met....havent talked....so she cud even say lie to u...its very simple to make a fool when online...trully speaking dear even i ve made many fools when i used to chat ...bt yes thr r sum who dont do tht bt thr r also sum hwo make other fool to ve fun or to hide their real identity...this was ur question n my ans is tht u cant trust tht girl!
2006-08-29 00:52:07 · answer #5 · answered by Neha 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
that's the thing...
you can never trust or believe a girl...
they tell you 1 thing but means the other...
2006-08-29 00:40:23 · answer #6 · answered by mr.m 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if girl then u can trust but not on boy
2006-08-29 00:58:15 · answer #7 · answered by munmun 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i don't trust anyone. at all. People, girl or boy, can't be trusted.
2006-08-29 02:42:40 · answer #8 · answered by sk83rChic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't u ever trust a girl, mind my words.....
2006-09-03 23:25:46 · answer #9 · answered by Peter 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont trust girls...
they seems to be sentimental... but finally make us mental...
2006-08-29 00:37:41 · answer #10 · answered by kathir 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋