My wife is refusing to make love to me. It has been a while (more than 2 months). I need good advice.?

Answer 1

A wife simply does not refuse to have sex with her husband for no reason. There is obviously something bothering her emotionally and you need to figure that out or you won't be getting it again. Have you cheated on her? Does she think you did? Honestly, have you been treating her like crap? For whatever reason, she's feel disconnected from you emotionally. With some women, sex is more emotional than physical. Sit down and ask her straight out what's bothering her. Just remember, don't be a d*ck about it or you'll make it worse.

Answer 2

Why is she refusing? Did you recently have a baby? A traumatic experience? Are you cheating and get caught?

If you want to know why the wife won't have sex with you then you need to approach the subject with her gently. Don't wait til at night when you are in the bed or first thing in the morning.....Just ask her if its something you've done to keep her from being in the mood.....if you are truly sincere then you might be able to start getting laid on a regular basis.

Answer 3

I am shocked at the amount of women/girls telling you to cheat on your wife! These same girls will be on here asking "Why did he cheat on me!?" Idiots....Anyway, You should talk to your wife in a calm relaxing setting don't get upset about the fact that she hasn't made love to you recently, she could be under stress or hormonal issues. Have a serious discussion about it and try to come to an agreement...if you both can't seem to work it out try mentioning couples therapy. The fact that she is your wife should mean she is worth the wait and the effort.

Answer 4

Tell your wonderful wife that if she does not want to make love to you there are plenty of other women that will and she either needs to work with you or face the consequences. Is it worth a divorce, or just finding a f u c k buddie to take care of your needs?

Answer 5

It could be she is starting to have female problems or she is just so tired from work , have you tryed to sit down and talk to her ask her whats wrong try to under stand her point its so hard to be a female some women at a certian age don't want to have sex just like some men don't want sex but that doesn't mean for the other to run out and find someone else all we can do is try and understand and do with out sex their is more to a marriage than just sex good luck to you

Answer 6

Hello!!! You havent stated any reason why your wife is refusing to have sex with you. You should take her out to a nice moonlight dinner, hold her hand, take her for a walk along the beach, and talk sweetly, get her the best of things, cajole her. All the very best

Answer 7

don't pressure her and talk to her find out what's going on with her. SHe may just need some cuddle time not the wam bam I'm out of here thing. Communication. Love making starts when you wake up til you go to sleep, not just sex. The little things are what open the door way. Where's the romance?

Answer 8

my number is....no just kidding. It sounds like your wifey gots some problems you may not be aware of. You need to talk to her, ask her what the deal is. I am sure she knows eventually you will get it from somewhere else or at least start flirting and you don't want that. Hopefully she'll come/cumm around. Good luck!

Answer 9

If you want advise you need to tell us why she is refusing to make love to you. There is a reason this has happened and your not telling us.

Answer 10

ASdk her, which is the reason. But be sincere and let her tell you the truth, maybe she is afraid of what you are going to feell if she tells her true, maybe it is a simple thing you are or her is doing, before or doing you are making love.