This guy from work who has a crush on me found out it was my birthday and before all my friends did he gave me a birthday card with two movie vouchers. Did he want me to take him or not. Im not extactly freinds with him and i dont want to take him. What do you think it meant him giving it to me?
2006-08-28 23:49:54 · 13 answers · asked by butterfly_angelmarie321 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Take the vouchers nonchalantly, say "Thank You" and then invite your best friend with you. After all, the guy gave them to you as gift, so it is yours to dispose of in whatever manner you see fit. Maybe he was trying to send a signal or what but unless explicit, pretend you're not reading between the lines (or oversimulating, for that matter). Oh, belated Happy Birthday.
2006-08-28 23:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by Bummerang 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gifts are just gifts: They do not mean necessarily anything more than an appreciation.Thank him for the movie voucher. Say you and your boy friend are very happy with the gift. Make sure everyone at work knows about this. If you do not have a boy friend/husband/partner, invite some one close, like a sister or another relative.
Alternative is to sell the vouchers and donate the money to charity.
If you do not want to take him You SHOULD NOT. And this is very important.
2006-08-29 06:56:21 · answer #2 · answered by regis_cabral 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He obviously wants you to go with him to the movie. If you are not interested in going with him, the nicest thing you could do is to tell him thank you for the movie tickets and you and your best friend will enjoy them. This was his way of asking you to go out with him, he is obviously shy, and thought that you would be nice enough to agree to go. You could also offer to give them back to him so that he can go with someone else. Since they were a gift, I would thank him and then attend the movie with a person of my choice. Good luck and happy belated birthday.
2006-08-29 06:59:49 · answer #3 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this would mean that he likes you and he gave that to you in hopes that you would ask him to go to the movie with you .You may not like him but at least make it a point not to leave him out when you and your friends go out for lunch or what ever he might just want to be your friend but always remember that friends start first good luck
2006-08-29 07:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by Libra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the 2 tickets given by him i would guess would mean he wants to go with you. watch that friends episode where rachelle has 2 knicks tickets - notice her intentions for them
2006-08-29 06:53:03 · answer #5 · answered by the dogone dog 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he was being kind and gave them to you knowing that he asnt gonna go no where with you and has the hookupp on tickets thats common
2006-08-29 06:58:48 · answer #6 · answered by Charlotte 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he wants you to invite him to the movie. Be sensitive and don't hurt his feelings. He likes you. ^-^
2006-08-29 06:59:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HE REALLY WANTS TO GO OUT WITH YOU. OTHERWISE WHY WOULD HE DO SO. YOU ALREADY KNOW THAT HE HAS A CRUSH ON YOU.
2006-08-29 06:54:54 · answer #8 · answered by SCARLETT O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he meant is a gift. Say your thanks and tell him that your best friend will be happy with a freebie!
2006-08-29 06:52:46 · answer #9 · answered by Beachy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if he had wanted to go with you, he would've been clear and invited you.
2006-08-29 06:56:53 · answer #10 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋