i just wondering about your opion about two different backround getting married.
i have some issuse with with my parents about about the it
2006-08-28 23:08:00 · 11 answers · asked by jwtaz1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Depends on how similar you two are AS PEOPLE and how well you think you could cooperate with each other as a TEAM. (Sorry -- when considering marriage, romance takes a back seat!)
For example, are you both tidy? Do you like to do similar kinds of activities, vacations etc. Do you both feel the same way about the use of drugs, alcohol etc. Can you and are you willing to help each other grow into better people?
If you find you agree on many such things, you have the right to ask your parents to allow you to live your own life . . .
. . . if not, keep dating!
2006-08-28 23:19:50 · answer #1 · answered by Dilettante 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love each other, color, race, cultural background should not matter. Being emotional matured means being able to see beyond what is physical.
You won't be living with your parents, so what they think about your partner should not stop you from doing what you think is right. Parents try to protect their kids allright. But when it comes to love, you should know how you feel about the other better than your parents.
2006-08-28 23:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by Bu Ang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married now 12 yrs. Culturally we have come from 2 different backgrounds.
He was brought up on a FARM in Michigan. Very poor...but very rich family values. (GERMAN FAMILY)
I was brought up upper middle class with $$$$ Nice house and family values. (IRISH, Mom American Indian)
Two worlds, two cultures...so far after 12 yrs so good
2006-08-28 23:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It relies upon on the diocese of direction, yet i think of you generally want a minimum of 6 months notification to prepare for an in-church Catholic wedding ceremony, no count of what faith the meant, except there are extreme extenuating situations.The church demands that lots time no longer purely for arranging the chapel, yet additionally marriage counseling and the banns. The church is generally lots stricter approximately those issues than many different faiths. undecided with regard to the Methodists, yet i think of in addition they require counseling, a minimum of, to accomplish a marriage. another selections: Having your priest rejoice the sacrament at a mundane facility. The worst decision of direction is settling for a weekday, yet it is hardly an decision, precise? i might strongly propose discussing the problem alongside with your priest. it is probable that any church on your area falls below one diocese, and the guidelines for the six month era stands out as the comparable in each and all the church homes. you ought to learn with him to make advantageous. greater tips is generally attainable at your parish's or diocese's website. usual data approximately Catholic marriage is attainable on the Catholic Encyclopedia's website. stable luck.
2016-10-01 01:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love has no boundries.I think if you love someone it doesnt matter you have to live with them not your parents.You have to live you own life and if you make mistakes along the way you learn from them.Sometimes we parents try to shield our children from the hurts of life not really meaning to push our children away.Just let them know you have made this decision and they need to let you live your life and respect your decision even if they feel it is wrong.Good Luck.
2006-08-29 00:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can work despite all the outside influences; I speak from experience. Just make sure you and your wife put the utmost effort into blocking out all the interference and making your marriage work.
2006-08-28 23:14:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband and I have been happily married for 20 years we are from very different backgrounds, I think a lot of people end up settling for second best because they confine themselves to a certain group of people
2006-08-28 23:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by Sandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion it doesn't matter the matter background...or even if the couple are two different races as long as they are happy and treat each other good thats all that should matter
2006-08-28 23:12:43 · answer #8 · answered by echoedwhispers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares nobody has the same back ground as their spouse any more, if they do then hurray for them. Your differences will keep the relationship interesting.
2006-08-28 23:13:16 · answer #9 · answered by really???? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard ...when the paretns don't agree...it's hard on the partener....but hey...they shouldn't stop you from being happy...just tell your partener you don't care what they think anyways...
2006-08-28 23:38:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋