saying that I want what I want and anyone that comes in the way is just not worth it, just a way of pushing people away unconsciously? given that the person does have some trust issues? and hates getting attached to people due to previous dissapointments and coz sooner or later they will interfere and restrict.
2006-08-28 22:58:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
EGOIST NOT EGOTIST!
loner perhaps
asshole well maybe that too
but the point of the question is not that
what I'm asking is are people around you more important than fulfilment for yourself or is compromise really the only way of life?? answer wisely this time!
2006-08-29 20:17:03 · update #1
sounds like something you should pursue in physcotherapy....
whoever acts that way has some serious physcological dysfunctions... I can see one protecting themself and setting boundaries to not let certain types of people in their life.. but the
TRUTH OF THE MATTER... we were not put on this earth to survive our lives alone, we all need people in our lives in some way shape or form to be connected in this world, without that we are nothing.. so you have to put down the guard at some point and trust in something or someone, without it there is no hopes for survival!
2006-09-05 12:28:25 · answer #1 · answered by someone s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being an egoist doesn't necessarily push people away. But in your case, it does. And your not pushing people away unconsciously, you know that you are. If you have some trust issues, try opening yourself to other people. Not everyone will be a disappointment, and you ll never find that out, if you don't try. There will be disappointments in life, but you get over it, and move on. If you continue on being like this, you will stay a loner for the rest of your life, unless you find someone exactly like you, which is probably difficult. But one person in life isn't satisfying.
2006-09-05 11:16:06 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the difference between Egoist, Egoism,
Egotist? It's just pure selfishness, caring for yourself more than others correct? Egoists will even go to the point of insulting or putdown others if it lifts their own spirits! Correct? Lucifer or Satan probably loves Egoists cause can trick them into doing almost anything by making it look like it's good for the Ego
2006-09-02 05:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok to look out for yourself and try not get hurt but that is the trade off in this thing we call life. In order to have a full life one must make trade offs. having friends means sometimes getting burned. Its not all bad though most of the time the good times far out wiegh the bad times.
2006-09-04 01:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you're talking about sounds more like a loner than an egotist.
2006-08-29 11:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by Saffren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being an egotist just shows how vulnerable and insecure a person that you are sad , so sad . get a life because you will surely a sad and lonely person with positively no one unless you can find an egotist with a mentality to match yours
2006-08-29 07:23:48 · answer #6 · answered by bill g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's annoying for any reason you choose. Stop it. And, everyone has trust issues at one time or another. Stop using it as an excuse to be an asshole.
2006-08-29 06:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm giving you a thumbs down on this question just for saying "unconsciously".
2006-08-29 06:02:00 · answer #8 · answered by Jimmy H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not the creator of man, calm your big head down
2006-08-29 06:06:05 · answer #9 · answered by neoai01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i consciously told my boss off today...
i subconsciously wiped my butt today...
i unconsciously dreamed today...
have a good day...
2006-08-29 16:47:31 · answer #10 · answered by Dizzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋