i have a very pretty lesbian friend whom im close to. however a few nights ago she made a pass at me and i froze on the spot i am straight so i was scared to say the least. now she wont talk to me cuz she said i made her feel stupid. who is in the wrong???
2006-08-28 22:58:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Her, unless you have given her signals otherwise. Tell her that you like her as a friend but that you don't swing that way. If she doesn't understand it's her loss, not yours.
2006-08-28 23:06:35 · answer #1 · answered by starrynight1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you have froze on the spot if a guy would have done the same thing?!?!?!
Why dont you try and talk to her in an adult manner - who cares who is in the wrong - i dont think either of you are, she must have seen something in you that made her think that you wanted the same as her, and you obviously hadn't made it clear that there are boundaries to your friendship.
And whats with the scared crap?? what do you seriously think she was gonna do to you? give your left boob a harsh feel - you need your eyes opening and a wake up call!!
2006-08-31 04:47:30 · answer #2 · answered by cleo55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 03:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by lyon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should have gone with it!
try EVERYTHING once - if you like it, do it again - if you don't, then don't!
But at least try it!
Say sorry to your friend and tell her how scared you felt and that you were surprised because you didn't think she liked you in that way.
Then suggest going on a date - who knows, things might work out really well for you two!
2006-08-28 23:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by lunapilot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just explain the situation to her that you are straight and nothing will happen between you too. Obviously you are both embarrassed so make her feel as though its a mistake but point out it must not happen again.
2006-08-28 23:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sound like she didnt get the reaction she was hopin for, just go to her and talk and put it behind you, she was in the wrong for ignorin you now, but if u are as close as you say u are, put it behind you both, i have friends who i have had relationships with, and we are still best friends, dont lose your friendship over this... good luck
2006-08-28 23:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by teejaysherbert 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think either of you are wrong, and it isnt very helpful to try and blame someone.
Talk to her and explain the situation.
2006-08-28 23:01:18 · answer #7 · answered by OriginalBubble 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am a lesbian trapped in a man's body!!, send her round to me!!, ha,ha
2006-08-31 02:55:18 · answer #8 · answered by '47' 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she knows ur straight she aught feel "stupid" its not ur fault just tell her u were caught off guard and lets not revisit that scene...
2006-08-28 23:02:32 · answer #9 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is. If she knew you better she should have known you were straight. I think lesbos sucks. They should practice it with her kinky kind, whom she should be able to recognise easily. Dont worry about it. But make it known that there is no hard feelings. Its good to have friends no matter what their personal habits are.
2006-08-28 23:04:58 · answer #10 · answered by Kumari 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋