Many times i tried to meet & speak to him but he just says our relationship is over??? How can a relationship just get over??? Is love a game??? we normally meet every day but last two days he did not bother to call me o atlist mis cal me. with anger he burnt all our snaps, this hurted me a lot.... I just want to make him realize my love for him,,,, but how do i make it???? he is impossible to go out from my heart, how can he just say our relationship is over??? i really dont understand what to do??? Will it be fine if we take a month break????
2006-08-28 22:52:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It looks likes it's over.
2006-08-28 23:07:32 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all.. what all caused this all of a sudden if you both really were in love with each other ?! There might b a reason for his such reaction towards you. Try find that out dear.
If you call him, he might not recieve your calls, as he's angry coz of sumthing, Try going to a place he is definite to come,like a pub, any get together party with your frds...anything, and ask him why all this?!
Say him you Love him. and wait for his answer. If he's rude, and doesnt care for anything you ask, just get out, give Yourself a break, If He really Loves you and is sorry for his behaviour, he'll come to you.
Dont worry.
If he doesnt come back to you... Move on !!
Time is a great healer.
2006-08-28 23:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by wachie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Rita, It is a good thought to give it a break... Let him cool down a bit.. If he really loves you he too will start missing you..
But do remember to send him an sms that you are waiting for his reply and then take a break. He should not feel that you are not intereted now.
Most importantly you didn't mentioned what made his react like this. No sensible man reacts like this without provocation. Try and find out the solution to what made him react so strongly and you will win him back.
2006-08-28 23:01:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say that it sounds like it is very much over. You appear to be a mature young woman, so pick yourself up and move on. This guy may try to get back with you in the future but remember the hurt you are going through now and tell him 'DROP DEAD". Good luck!
2006-08-28 22:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by marcus p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as u have said u have done all the possible way to pursue ur relationship but for him its over,so i tink relationship get over wen one of you is not happy with ur relationship,for other love is a game for others its not,it dependson the person u will fall into.Nothing is impossible u can get over him soon.Try to analyze the things,and the reason for ur break den u can answer ur question y he had told u dat ur relationship is over,Just remember dat if someone is gone from u someday someone will come much better dan the one u have lost.Nobody can tell till wen u will feel the pain.
Its reli hard to accept the reality of life,but dats how life goes it just depend on us how we will manage our life......Goodluck
2006-08-28 23:32:30 · answer #5 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to be with someone that is showing you by actions that they don't really want to be with you? While it is difficult to accept the end of a relationship, if you have done everything to try to communicate with him your feelings and he doesnt seem to care or respond, you have to accept it and move on. It is going to be rough because you will think of him but instead of using your energy to convince him of your love (your actions shows you love him) put that energy into yourself by finding things to do that will get your mind off of him and build yourself up so when you are ready to move on with someone else, you can do so with him fully out of your system. Love is not a game, but to many people it is. Choose not to play his game. Leave him be..if it is meant for you and him to be together, he will be back.
2006-08-28 23:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by philly_q_t_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person who can answer this question is your ex. If you take a break it doesnt always mean that u will get back together It might it might not
2006-08-28 22:56:49 · answer #7 · answered by jemmy_jams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on to someone new who won't treat you this way. You deserve better, don't you? Get somebody new who really loves you. Best wishes!
2006-08-28 22:56:39 · answer #8 · answered by Paul H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heloo.Well is it because you didn't care about him last time but he did?Then after a while he just can't take it anymore and explode?Any way you two can sit down and have a talk too.If u still luv him...........
2006-08-28 23:07:09 · answer #9 · answered by King S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face it. It's over. Move on.
2006-08-28 22:57:59 · answer #10 · answered by Ironball 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋