I was in marraige for 10years before being separated from my wife. And now I found it diffult chatting up a lady as I have not done that throughout my marraige.
2006-08-28 22:35:54 · 11 answers · asked by BiggySnr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just do these three steps as you read them.
1: stand up, stand up tall and hold your head up high.
2: take a deep breath and say to yourself, i deserve to be with someone. my marriage is my past, and my path to where I am now. There are great times ahead.
3: Go for it. It's better then not going for it and being misterable.
Trust me, took me five years but I realise now, in those five years I could have had soo much fun. I'm with somebody i love now, and i regret not letting myself get close to anybody since last time.
remember, the past is the path that led you to where you are now. You've had some great times, cherish them, bad time are good for you too, the are a direct reference for what is good and bad. You can't use your marriage as an excuse. It is past, you are beyond that now. You decide what you want, and push away any feelings that you don't want. It's not easy when you are "in that state" but it really is that simple.
and finally: We all love days in the sunshine, but its the rainy days that help us "grow" and appreciate them.
Hope this isn't too "Anthony Robbins". check his books out though. he makes sense.
2006-08-28 22:44:34 · answer #1 · answered by Stroopwafel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go out with the intention of 'chatting up women ' you will probably fail.
But.... women liked to be listened to, taken seriously and most like men who have a good sense of humour.
Try to be natural. I know you will hate me for saying 'Join an interest group' but seriously that is the best way to meet people and find someone new. Local amateur dramatics groups are a good idea, it doesn't matter if you don't want to act they are always crying out for set builders, lighting and sound people and general back stage help. If that doesn't grab you... evening classes .... you can choose almost anything these days
Goodluck... don't try too hard , just be yourself.
2006-08-28 23:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by Ellie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 00:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have confidence yourself than i think u should do chat with her or whoever u want to talk with. marriages is a personal matter 4 everyone and just friendship is another matter friendship has lots of meaning its all depends on u that what kind of friendship u want.
2006-08-28 22:43:39 · answer #4 · answered by ans 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out there and meet people already, there's nobody here for you....It will all come back when you need it, if you are nervous in the beginning thats natural. It will all go away after a few secs.
2006-08-29 00:32:18 · answer #5 · answered by X's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ten years of marriage and you still haven’t talked to her? Jesus. Do it before she dies of boredom, man…
:D
Sorry… Just read your question header and couldn’t resist replying to that.
Don’t think too much about it… Just go ahead and do it. Be clear in your mind. Things will fall into place.
2006-08-28 22:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by Hammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is easy just smile and start chatting worry the less confidence you will have.
2006-08-29 00:32:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, forget internet, email, chat rooms
go out with your friends (male or female) and get used to going out again
it'll come naturally.....just don't try too hard
and, good luck
2006-08-28 23:54:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
develop friendship through Internet or through e mails.
2006-08-28 22:38:32 · answer #9 · answered by trishul60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try chat rooms she what other people are saying and don't be crude try www.camstreams.com they don't allow smut.
2006-08-28 22:39:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋