I cannot gather guts to tell her that I love her?

Answer 1

Then you don’t.

Answer 2

First of all, you gave no background info so... does she appreciate you? has she told you that she really loves spending time with you? IS she interested in how you think? Does she tell you she misses you?

I am not saying that you shouldn't tell her, but I do think you should be sure that you are telling a woman who will appreciate it. I mean, you do not want to have the words "I LOVE YOU" seem like they are coming out of nowhere...so plan on sending her some flowers and maybe doing something special for her so she knows you admire her that much, unless she already has let you know how much she admires you equally...then GO FOR it, you've got nothing to lose, and everything to gain.

Let me know if I can help otherwise though!

Answer 3

I once had this problem telling a guy i loved him i would want to say it but was too afraid i relized finally that i didn't love him. I wanted love but he wasn't it. Honestly telling someone u love them for the first time can be scary, but there is a point when i believe sub conciosly(sp) you know the love isn't real and thats why u cant express it. Think about it, If you find u do love her tell her, if you don't move on your true love may be right around the corner.

Answer 4

All very good answers. I have to ask you, do you love her or is it just a response thing? If you actually love her, it should be easier than you think.

1. Plan for you two to go to some kind of date
2. Sit across her and hold her hands, and look into her eyes. If you love her, you will know it, and it will come out. It is always hard to do this, and practicing will not help. Just do it. DO NOT stop looking into her eyes when you say it. If you absolutely can NOT say it, well, just ask her if she loves you. If you can't even do that, you're screwed. :) To put it nicely.

Answer 5

Just do the following,

1.Wake up early in the moring (between 3-4)
2.Look in a mirror in your room
3.Say 50 times or more, looking on your face in the mirror
" I WILL TELL HER THAT I LOVE HER"

Answer 6

Well, I guy I dated once told me he loved me in a letter. It sounds lame, but I thought it was really sweet. I know I write much better than I talk to people, especially about serious stuff.

Answer 7

You are not telling because of the fear of losing her. Am i correct?? But if some one tell her this and she accepts his it will be shamefull for you, so "tell and lose" is better because you can compensate yourself that you have tried. Do not go for result before action. So All the best. tell her. And of course , Give her a faith. good luck.

Answer 8

You can opt to write her a letter or ask a friend to tell it for her. But I doubt the latter would actually give you credit. Writing her a poem or even a song may also work.

Answer 9

hint towards it,just every now and again,if your that shy get your mates to ask her,or hint it for you.No matter how special you think she is after all she is only another peson.dont worry of losing her if she says no go for the " stupid i know but i thought you should know" or something like that.good luck -x-

Answer 10

why not?? if it is important to you to let her know how you feel.. why not?? is it cause you dont really love her but you think you do??? what if she never knows??? how would that feel like to you?? its decision time isn't it? to let her know how you feel and see if she feels the same way.... or dont let her know and both of you will be wondering if it ever was... use that as your motivation to build up the balls.... good luck man

Answer 11

You have to tell her, or someone else will & you will lose her forever.Do it now when u have a chance & be prepared for the worst.