i am in love with a boy & our relationship was very good at the start,since a year now he having doubts on me and blaming me for no reason at all, infact i found out he is very narrow minded & i am just the opposite. i love him truely & ready to do anything for him. He also loves me truely but sometimes when he doubt i just get irritated. Whenever we go out for shopping, he feels that i dont care for him which really hurts me, i sumtimes feel he dont love me truely at all coz every now & then he repeating the same words which hurts me, but still i took him as he is. I feel he is taking revenge of me, and on my face he says he dont believe me nor trust me... many times we fight & argue with each other but soon we are one, he also said get lost from his life but i did not go from him coz i love him & next day he says sori. Now past 2days again he had a fight with me,i said we better take a break for 1 month & said to him i wont sms o call u. How do i make him realize my love for him??
2006-08-28
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i would like to say all u both need is to talk..next time when u meet him u clear to him the things u dont like..ask him not to doubt u and have trust in u..coz love is a relation based on mutual trust..try to understand him..what he want from u..
2006-08-28 22:35:25
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answered by ANKUR C 2
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Right ON Myro! Dude, seriously, the way that you teach, talk about and use the Bible is amazing! I totally get what your saying and I thank you for putting this question up. I use to think that the God of the OT was mean and cruel and that Jesus in the NT was much more nicer, until I discovered the truth about God and Jesus. I have read your entire posting, at first I thought you were gonna start ranting (not like you) but while reading I could feel the sincerity in your question and I read the responses you gave to certain peoples questions (I also looked up the scriptures, I keep my Bible by my computer now) and I can't begin to tell you how happy I am since coming to learn the learn the truth. I now know how much Jehovah loves me. Before learning the truth I couldn't think of anyone let alone God actualy loving me because of all that I have done. Not anymore though, I know that I am valuable, that I have worth and I know it because God says so and sent Jesus to die for me. God doesn't make no junk but sometimes the beautiful things that God makes are used for junk, but that's not what he made it for. The more I learn from God's people the more I begin to understand just how friggin awsome you and the other worshipers of Jehovah are. It is my hope to someday be able to join you guys in serving God and taking the message to the people. When I read some people's answers showing that they think God Almighty Jehovah actually burns people in fire forever, I just shook my head. Keep on bringing the message Myro! As you know, it was because of people like you and many other witnesses on Yahoo Answers that I am were I am today. I can't begin to thank all of you witnesses enough for not giving up and leaving this site because of all the negative BS you encounter. I was almost at the point of suicide when I reached out to you guys on this website, if you hadn't have been here, I would be dead right now. See, you guys have me crying over here (brb). Okay I'm back. Sorry. I am just so happy to know what I know and I am thrilled about learning even more. Tonight is the ministry school and I can't wait! I never thought that I would ever say this, but the truth is actually better than sex and those who know about me KNOW that that is a huge statement for me to make. To all of Jehovah's Witnesses, from the bottom of my heart, thank you for doing what you do and being who you are. Myro, thanks for posting this question man. Dude, your wife is so lucky to be with you.
2016-03-26 23:51:23
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answered by ? 4
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sounds to me like this guy needs to do some major soul searching and maybe some growing up too and a break from eacother might be for the best for you both to really evaluate this relationship and if you truly want to be in it together or if he wants to go his way and you yours. Communication is key and after the small time out period I would call him set up a time to meet somewhere and talk over what you both want in a relationship and then go from there and at that time make it clear that you love him but you will not settle for less than what you want in a relationship and that if he can't give you what your looking for then it's time to go your separate ways and find someone who can for life is short and you need to find the perfect love for you quickly but make sure it is and not just a mirage. GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-28 22:47:22
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answered by outlawprincess5321 3
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Sweety, I have gone through what your going through and i left the bastard and file for a divorce.These kind of men are only out for theirself and really don't care about your feeling and it doesn't get better,oh no it gets worse.Do yourself a favor and end this while you can.
Clowmy
2006-08-28 22:51:59
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answered by Anonymous
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you are getting hurt and he is feeling guilty.better both of you go to a counselor for help to sort out the issues
2006-08-28 22:29:32
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answered by trishul60 4
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No need to do so as he knew your love for him already cos he's taking your love for granted from what i can see here...
Can't you just dump him?I know its difficult to do so..But i just feel angry when i read on how he treated u...don't dwell in this relationship..its harmful for you...
2006-08-28 22:47:06
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answered by barelyahrie 3
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i suppose u should part ways after u talk to him & he still continues to behave the same way with u
2006-08-28 22:47:42
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answered by archa 2
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why do not both of u talk. may he face some work or other business problem. talk to him. and check ur self.
2006-08-28 22:34:32
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answered by digi 2
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BETTER BE COOL AND TALK TO HIM
2006-08-28 22:26:44
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answered by yogesh 6
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If you are asking then no he doesn't
2006-08-28 22:27:40
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answered by really???? 3
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