is it normal for the husband to always innitiate sex?

Question

I never reject her, yet she rejects me more than half the time. yes she get's off, normally more than once. have sex about 1-3 times a week.

Answer 1

you don't have to initiate all the time... let her do it sometimes...

Answer 2

hey man be patient!u should take it slow when ask ur girl to make love with ya and hey try to make some romance move before tell her let's have se6x!u see women ned sweet words and to din her out and dance in club with her and to make her feel like she is a queen and then sex come at last but not just ask for sex and want her to say yes and consider if she works or she raise ur kids may be she is tired u try to comfort her and make her a hottub to let her relaxe and then from the way u deal with that she'll always feel good and will say yes,and i don't se anything upnormal,u try doing same se what she'll do when u turn her down when wanna have sex with ya,just se her reaction and what will happen next may be that wil make her think again about her way in reject having sex with, hope that helps:).

Answer 3

OK, women connect to us emotionally. Which means that when she FEELS sexxy or very connected to you she wants to share her most precious thing with you-herself. Where men see her bend over and watch her hips when she walks or see some cleavage and etc.. and we are ready to go. We are just more physical that way.
So, if you work a little to see to it that she FEELS good about things-conversations,house,kids,bills,health,her body,family and etc... this will releive some stress and let her concentrate on other things like your sexlife but make sure to direct the freetime in that direction by maybe going out on dates first. Yes,m a lil wining and dining goes along ways, being a provider is more than just paying the bills, it's a lifestyle. Lead the way and she will follow.
ps-start taking care of your physical appearance.

Answer 4

no , it should have a fairly equal balance of who innitiates sex.. having sex is alot more then just the physical act itself, and if one is always innitiating it, then they eventually will start to feel like they have lost their sex appeal because they are never being on the wanted, or lusted side.. which could lead to alot of problems..

Answer 5

No, it is not fair that the husband always initiate sex. As women feel loved and wanted when their partner initiate sex, it is the same for the men. My boyfriend and I has discussed this often and he says that it feels really good when I initiate sex because it alters his ego and he feels wanted and more secure in our relationship.

Answer 6

Yes this is normal behavior. She has you trapped and she will only give it to you when she damned well feels like it. I have developed a method that may work for you..... I always try to get in bed before 9pm that way I can get home before midnight.

Answer 7

Yes. Men usually have the stronger libido. However, one person always initiating will eventually become an issue especially as the marriage grows and becomes more complex.

Answer 8

Yes it is, but if you are wanting her to initiate then just back off for a while and sooner or later she will be the one trying to get you in the mood!

Answer 9

Maybe she suffers for a low self esteem. In addition, how are you with her before that? Do you show her affection? Do you communicate, not talk down or argue?

Mel (Loving memory of my son, my angel Zachary Aug. 2, 2006)

Answer 10

No, the husband does not have to initiate sex all the time. But in my experience, I have never told my husband no but he will tell me no.

Answer 11

usually ladies tend to be shy when it comes to sex issues. but of course they still need to be a bit initiative somehow - at least to turn you on when you were completely coiled off. well, but i don't really agree that yours doesn't initiate it sometimes - or you wouldn't have written "I never reject her, yet she rejects me ..."