Today people could care less of values & morals so why not jump in the bed with someone else than with your ordained lifetime soulmate. For 5 years I'm faithful, loyal, committed to my husband from not having jump in the bed with some guy which he is not to me. I won't ever commit adultery like my husband is doing with my X- best friend. It is so wrong to do. It is better to have a clear conscience than to have a boyfriend. Like they said , there is no pillow so soft as a CLEAR conscience !!! I know this in my heart if I make a mistake then I answer to God and ONLY God for them. I know down deep in my heart to be true that marriage is what it is UNTIL DEATH.
2006-08-28 21:44:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry to hear about your story, l agree with you although these days, few seem to want to remain faithfull.
2006-08-28 21:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
now that is music to my ears. i wish u knew how refreshing it is to hear the very words i believe in with all my heart. i really didn't think there was anyone who thought like that anymore.
i start to get depressed reading about all the cheating and abusive relationships on yahoo answers. about the time i think about trying it again, i read Y/Answers i start to realize i am better off single. alone can hurt, but not as much as the lies and unloyality did.
i admire ur courage and strength.don't change u r the kind of person, u would never forgive urself for just jumping in bed with just anyone.
its really sad when there r kids involved. they don't ask to be born, the least we can do is make life as happy and provide a safe inviroment for them.
try and have a nice day :) and keep up the good morals
2006-08-29 06:04:10 · answer #2 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
June, it sounds like you are very bitter and hurt. You sound like a wonderful women with a big heart that has been violated and shattered. Being a single parent is going to take allot of strength, character and love to ensure your children do not repeat the cycle of deviancy put forth by their misfit father. It will be hard for you to ever trust another man and to allow yourself to fall in love again. So your best bet will be an occasional meaningless one night stand whenever the kids are with their dad for the weekend. If you need someone to fulfill those womanly needs on occasion with no strings attached I may be available.... send me a picture.
2006-08-29 04:55:22 · answer #3 · answered by lowrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When that ordained lifetime soulmate abandons you....I think that bond is broken. In his eyes, your eyes and the Lords eyes. He will have to pay the consquences of his actions at a later time. You have been true to the vows you made before the Lord but those vows no longer exist.
The good Lord wouldn't look unfavorably at you for seeking happiness and a new soul mate.
2006-08-29 05:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
great to hear you with good morals, keep it there. 2 wrongs dont make a right. its morals that separates us bet humans and animals?
but on the other hand, sex is common and needed? being a single parent, widowed, divorced or not commited, it would be easier to be involved and having it? afterall it hurts no one except ourselves.
being "experienced' and matured, knowing what to do and not to do and what to expect and not to expect and not harming anyone or at anyone's expense why not enjoy ourselves in it.
its like being on a diet and uncontrolably broke it?
why deprive ourselves of the pleasure when our conscience is clear for its the simple pleasures of life being one's most private and intimate moments.
for its not easy to find a steady partner ( a proper one that is ) even if one wants.
sorry gals if it hurts but my thoughts are individual and of myself.
2006-08-29 05:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings and thoughts are highly appreciable. Since you have a very much clear conscience I shall advise for legal separation and enjoy the rest of your life.
2006-08-29 04:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by har 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well June..i agree that in the oath that you took about being apart till death comes.But sadly to say your partner doesnt seem to keep to that promise..more worse do it with your ex bestfriend.I hope you will learn to let go and if you are in another relation why not give yourself some pleasure!! I hope your life will alwaz be blessed.take care.
2006-08-29 04:49:33 · answer #7 · answered by ros 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can hold on that long
go right ahead
But I think that 90-95% of people in the world can't live without sex. Willing or not.
2006-08-29 04:48:17 · answer #8 · answered by peter gunn 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex should only be within marriage. If your husband left you for someone else, it doesn't mean that you should also be as unfaithful when you marry again.
2006-08-29 04:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very bitter, maybe your conscience is clear, but your heart isn't.
2006-08-29 04:55:07 · answer #10 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋