To be very nice and friendly to everyone? Cos either people take undue advantage of this or they mistake/misinterpret my intentions.......... Should i change?
2006-08-28 21:00:51 · 22 answers · asked by nice_libra_guy 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Just be urself cos one can't be mean and unfriendly if others are that way...people worth their salt will recognise you for what you are and appreciate your kindness and those who don't..u sure don't need them either !!
Just be on ur guard and know where to draw the line between being nice and being used ..!
2006-08-29 00:11:06 · answer #1 · answered by Nisha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong with being nice to people, there are too many miserable people in the world. I'm nice, too, and yes there are many who will try to take advantage of you, so it's important to have enough self-worth that you realize it's okay to say "no," it doesn't make you a bad person.
2006-08-29 04:04:09 · answer #2 · answered by cynshyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No; it isn't wrong. I think it is great. What would be wrong would be if you felt pressured into being different than you truly are. But you can be nice and friendly, but still stand up for yourself. Don't allow yourself to be taken advantage of. You'll feel resentful if you do.
2006-08-29 04:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by Kami 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! You have no reason to change at all. Nice and friendly people are a rarity nowadays but if everyone is like you (and, IMHO, me), the world will be a better one today and humanity is better served. Keep rocking...
2006-08-29 04:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by Bummerang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are being nice and friendly to everyone out of the goodness of your heart, it isn't wrong. Unfortunately, people aren't used to that type of behavior anymore. Don't change...change the world.
Take care!
2006-08-29 04:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is your nature to be nice, stay that way. Don't let others' behavior dictate your own. Their reactions should not change your personality. Some people sadly mistake kindness for weakness, but there is great wisdom in being kind. To thine own self be true.
2006-08-30 10:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be nice to a certain point, but not too far: show everyone you're friendly, but when you think someone's taking advantage of you, back off. on the other hand, if they're nice back, keep being nicer to them.
2006-08-29 04:03:36 · answer #7 · answered by tell me all!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
You are who you are, don't change coz the world around you has an attitude problem
That happens everywhere, all you have to do it calm yourself and realize that you are actually doing a humane thing and will be rewarded later in life
2006-08-29 04:04:48 · answer #8 · answered by G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. I say be nice to the people who deserve it and as for the mo fo's with attitude , *** them (not in the literal sense). Why? because some people ARE goina use u for ur kindess or watever it is u call urself so if you dont wanna be hurt u gotta keep your guard up.
2006-08-29 04:09:42 · answer #9 · answered by jason6x6x6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, do not change. Nice guys do not finish last. They end up being successful in life and finding a partner just as nice as they are.
2006-08-29 04:03:09 · answer #10 · answered by Perplexed Music Lover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋