I am confident that he loves me a lot but can't say how will he react when he comes to know about the age difference. We started loving each other even before seeing each other and touchwood our love hasn't changed or droppened even after we met. Now we are planning to get married. But ya, he lookes mature than me.I don't want to lose him.
2006-08-28 20:17:33 · 15 answers · asked by sonia s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell him that you love him. Tell him that you are 2 years older than him. Tell him that being older worries you about how he is going to react. Tell him that you love him very much & don't want to lose him.
If he really loves you, he will marry you.
Had it been me, i would have considered myself lucky that I have been to attract a woman elder to me because women usually prefer men older to them.
Good luck & God bless you. Don't forget to send invitation card of your marriage.
2006-08-28 20:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all why are you worried for this reason?
Has he ever mentioned anything like that to yourself on any other relationship?
If yes i.e. the suspicion in your mind is due to comments made by him (and by him only - I am not talking about all others who surround you) then be straight forward and talk to him. If he loves you, I am more than 100% sure there won't be any problem. As you have already said that he is mature more than you, so he shall understand your love. In any case 2 years is not that big a difference in partners, be it wife or husband. So go ahead and enjoy.
However, if that is not the case then just take it lightly and anyway you still need to let him know your concern, which I am sure he will understand.
Do let us know the outcome, so others can be benefited as well.
Good luck!!!
2006-08-28 21:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by GS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So how old are you? Two years might be huge if you are four and someone else is six. If he is 19 and you are 17 there could be minor/adult issues. But really, two years is almost no difference at all. Here is where I have a concern...He doesn't KNOW about the age difference? Have you lied about your age? Have you just never discussed it? I bet you have or you wouldn't know there was a two year difference. So, Tell him the truth about your age. If you are a minor than you'll have to wait a bit for the marriage or get parental consent. If he gets angry you need to see that as well and learn if you can handle it. But unions for life need to begin with truth and trust and honesty or they will fail!
2006-08-28 20:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by Robert P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are planning to get married, then its better to ask for his feelings. If you are afraid of his reactions after hearing this, then open the topic jokingly involving other couples with the same type of age differences. You will get the signal without hurting his feelings.
Physiclly you won't face any problem in conjugal life. As you said he acts mature, immotionally also there is no problem. Best of Luck.
2006-08-29 02:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by Dipak B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age does not matter in love but counts is if both of you love each other; once the love is there, love covers a multitude of differences.
Be honest and let him know your age if he wishes to know and always recognised his position in the family as the head of the family no matter how younger he is, be submissive.
2006-08-28 20:55:26 · answer #5 · answered by sweetie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your position is bit of critical.Since love don't have age limit,one of my friend also married a girl 1 year elder than him.So, if he is accepting so just go a head.
2006-08-28 22:01:46 · answer #6 · answered by Happy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, My Boyfriend is 3 years elder to me....he knows that and there's no problem with him in this situation, If your man really loves you then you dont need to worry at all...and let me tell you, Men like younger woman more....
2006-08-28 23:01:36 · answer #7 · answered by Mahima S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without second thought go ahead and enjoy your future , make it a point to look after his every need with your charming manner and behaves .
2006-08-28 20:24:53 · answer #8 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves u deeply i am sure he wil not hav any problem.
but there is a chance his friends, parents, relatives may encourage him to withdraw this proposal and to find a young girl. so hav open chat with him and tell him everything. so that he can take decision. hope everything wil end in good way
2006-08-28 20:24:17 · answer #9 · answered by lin d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
age difference is nothing. just tell him if u know he loves u
2006-08-29 03:34:27 · answer #10 · answered by Ms.X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋