FRECKLES WHEREVER YOU ARE . I LOST MY PARENTS TOO.NOT TO LONG AGO ..I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE FEELING.NOTHING HELPS.WORDS, TIME, WHATEVER.IT'S OUR PERSONEL. GOD BE WITH YOU
2006-08-28 20:02:32 · 6 answers · asked by cesare214 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my father years ago and it still pains me. But please move on, don't keep looking back and stay in your sadness. Make your late parents proud of you by becoming the best person you can be in all areas. And DON'T even think of turning into a bad life (drugs, etc) and commit suicide. NEVER!!! You're far more worthy than such things! And yes, Jesus loves you. Please seek Him with all of your heart. Being in His protection, love, salvation, and providence is the BEST place you can be for the rest of your life!
2006-08-28 20:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by bogey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of my parents died within the last 3 years. I'm only 28. It might sound awful but I feel orphaned/abandoned. People say it gets easier with time but I think over time you just get better at dealing with it. It still hurts as much as the moment I got the phone call or standing in that hospital room.
2006-08-29 15:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by stargirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I undertand your pain and I feel sad about it.
I have lost my grandparents, two of them I did not even know, and my Godparents (for a while I have been released as my Godmother's sister reminded me of her, but I lost the nice sister too !).
Everyone is suffering sometimes, one way or another, and this improve us, as we become more carefull to eachother.
Try in time to convert your feelings to positive ones.
If you are a believer, pray for your parents to reach a better place than one can imagine. It is known that the soul stays near our world for 40 days, while you can even talk to your parents.
Remember the best moments you spent together and you can write them down.
Even if you are not really a believer, try to speak to God, explaining what you think - it helps.
Consider you blessed, because you had parents, you have known them, they loved you and you will always love them !
2006-08-29 04:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you the best thing i know. All men have sinned against God and are therefore seperated from Him because He is holy. His Son Jesus Christ however died for our sin and took our punishment. If you turn from sin and turn to God and ask Jesus to forgive you for all the evil you have done you can be made right before God and He will come to live inside you by His Spirit. The Spirit of God will give you love, joy, peace, hope, truth, and comfort. God will become your Father and He will never leave you. It happened to me! Read the bible "gospel of John", trust Christ, and find some Christian who love God and will love you. livingwaters.com. I pray that you will know the grace, truth, and power of God through Jesus alone.
2006-08-29 03:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by dt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not freckles but i wanted to share something with you......there are 3 stages that we all go through when we lose a loved one....the first is shock and denial.......the second is anger and depression...and the third stage is acceptance and understanding....all are experienced during the healing process.....although they won't always come in that order....it's the natural process...now that you know you may be able to recognize them on certain days.....i hope this helps you make some sense of your thoughts and feelings during this most difficult time...blessings to you and yours....
2006-08-29 03:23:54 · answer #5 · answered by Happy Summer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In their absence, you have stepped into their shoes. Act in accordance.
2006-08-29 05:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by No Saint 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋