Here's my dilemma:
- Boy 1: He's cute, he's charming, and fun. But when I'm with him, he's scared to show anything and I don't know if he means it.
- Boy 2: I hardly know him, but we have a spark. And I don't know if it's for the better or for the worse.
- Boy 3: My type of guy. Smart, funny, cute, athletic... but my friends don't like him and stuff.
- Boy 4: Great guy, just a couple years older... eek. But he's perfect.
What do I do? It's just I'm stuck. plz help
2006-08-28 19:44:35 · 18 answers · asked by Erica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well why dont you spend some time with each of them and see what you want to be with. as for guy #1, If he likes you there should be no problem with him showing how he feels about you that sounds like a problem area to me. Guy #2 you could get to know him better and take it from there. Guy#3 This you have to keep in mind if your friends dont like him so what there not the ones dating him you are. Guy#4 so hes older whats the big deal?
2006-08-28 19:49:35 · answer #1 · answered by razersedge 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Boy 1: Pass! He'll never get over you considering 4 guys n e ways!
Boy 3: Friends don't always know what's best, but in my past my best friends always weeded out the bad ones.
Boy 4: I like that he's a little bit older but no guy is perfect.
Boy 2 seems to be your best option to start a new.
And quit lining up so many guys to choose from, it's okay to date around, but not all at the same time.
2006-08-28 19:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
PERSONALLY... id choose boy number one!
any girl who needs to be constantly shown affection maybe a bit insecure.. If he's scared to show you how he feels that means he probably really does like you. maybe he doesn't want to put himself to far out there to be rejected.
you obviously do get alot of guy attention.
doesn't the fact that u dont know where you stand with him make you more fascinated by him?
For him to have restraint is a great quality!
who needs some sooky sooky la la or a sleaze ball?
And also not knowing how he feels will keep you guessing.
I'm sure when he does get the guts to tell you how he feels it will mean so much more.
2006-08-28 20:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by kathycracksit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too many guys.
You are too young.
couple of years older is not much for a guy, because take a few years longer for a guy to grow up mentally.
Boy 1, too young, dont know what he is doing.
Boy 2, you are just dreaming.
Boy 3, if all your friends dont like him, there got to be a problem.
Boy 4, Try it, you might like it, lol
2006-08-28 19:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by dcw13 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy #4 It's obvious!
2006-08-28 20:05:41 · answer #5 · answered by John w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my poor you, so many men and so little time. For me it would be Boy 3, no question and because I think for myself, I could care less if my friends liked him or not.
2006-08-28 19:48:44 · answer #6 · answered by chris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for guy 3 without thinking about your friends because if they are good friends they will understand.
2006-08-28 19:51:32 · answer #7 · answered by me_mugdha1992 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't choose them. Let one of them choose you and go after that. Don't come across as a 'loose' girl by having too many boys in tow!
2006-08-28 19:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by DrSH 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep spending time with all of them. Looks like you don't know them enough to make a choice. More time spent together or more conversations will reveal if you really like one of them or maybe even any.
2006-08-28 19:49:17 · answer #9 · answered by ginger n' spice 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why your friend dislike boy 3. there must be some reason. but i suggest boy 1. maybe he just shy and all...
2006-08-28 19:48:22 · answer #10 · answered by kito 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋