Is it possible if two people of the opposite (or same) who meet over the internet or else where and one decides to visit and stay for a few days that those two can keep it completly platonic (not have sex) with one another...and they both find each attractive and they have descent conversations with each other over the phone. do you guy think that senerio could work...have anyone ever expirence that similar situation if so let me know what happen? or not?
2006-08-28 19:41:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It depends on how far you travel to meet. If you don't want to have sex then I suggest that person stay in a hotel and you only meet in public or with your friends around. Drive 500 miles and sleep in my guest room implies at least an 90% chance of sex in most men's minds, at least mine. I flew 7000 miles to stay with a girl in another country who I met online. Need I say more?
2006-08-28 19:46:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've only met one guy off the Internet, where I stayed over for a few days (I flew 18 hrs to get there) and we slept together.
I am 0 for 1 on platonic, over-nite, Internet meetings.
2006-08-28 19:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by Dolphin lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
It's possible - especially if it's a long distance visit, and it would be very expensive to go back and forth or get a hotel.
This sounds like something asked by someone who doesn't believe their partner's story on something. I'd say it's important also to know where on the internet they met.
2006-08-28 19:46:20 · answer #3 · answered by melvin100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, of course you can keep the situation platonic. All you have to do is say no. If you are worried that this guy is going to want the relstionship to become sexual, just ask him. If you do not like his answer then I would not invite him to stay with you.
2006-08-28 19:45:10 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Mojo Risin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a silly question. Of course. It all depends on how close you were on your internet relationship. You dont need to have sex, You dont need to find each other attractive.
2006-08-28 19:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by hicksvilleny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them visit, but make them stay at a motel....just cause you been talking to them in IM doesn't mean they aren't some psycho, or thief
2006-08-28 19:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES My stepdaughter met her husband over the internet, they have been married 3 yrs now. doing great.
2006-08-28 19:47:43 · answer #7 · answered by Brandy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think its all good ur both adluts i think its possible but if u both find each other attrative its unlikey u wont have sex unless u have no sex drive.
2006-08-28 19:45:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
anything is possible, yet use caution: do not stay at their house. have a hotel reservation ready if things go sour.
2006-08-28 19:43:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course.. willing to come in the phils?.. if youre going to be the one to visit me it would be no problem at all..
2006-08-28 19:45:45 · answer #10 · answered by ian_queso 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋