2006-08-28 19:36:49 · 15 answers · asked by Sallys 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Find out for sure if you are pregnant or not. As someone else said, unplaned babies happen all the time. This happened to friends of mine who weren't planning on having any kids. She's now 5 months and they're planning for the next one! Its amazing the changes that can happen in people.
Be honest with your husband and don't expect him to be happy straight away. In time, he will hopefully come around. God gave us 9 months to prepare for these things.
2006-08-29 19:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by wenjowade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, verify if you are really pregnant. If it proves positive, sit down and have a good talk with your husband. It takes two hands to clap. So,he should bear responsibility as well. You know you shouldn't abort the baby, coz it is a life after all. And most importantly, that baby is your own flesh and blood.
2006-08-29 03:19:28 · answer #2 · answered by Tsu-chan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a husband that wants a baby right now.
2006-08-29 02:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by protos2222222 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well youve got options...1st find out FOR SURE if your pregnant, Id go to the doc cuz since your stressing counting on on your period starting may not be the best choice as stress can delay it.....2nd you coul dopt for abortion, not my 1st choice but if its REALLY not a good idea to bring a child into your situation then maybe its for the best 3rd you could always carry the baby & put it up for adoptionthere are MILLIONS of couples that cant concieve that are dying to give a loving home to a child & 4th you could just have it & enjoy the wonders & happiness of parenthood
honestly if your husband REALLY was against having a child then the tow of you should have used protection or another form of birth control, the shot, implants, he could have had a visectomy, etc etc etc...hope it all works out for you
2006-08-29 02:46:31 · answer #4 · answered by *♥* ♥* FaeGoddess*♥*♥* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only logical thing to do would be to see your doctor.
Then discuss either outcome with your husband. If he didn't want a baby, then you two should have been more careful.
2006-08-29 03:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out if you are, maybe see a doctor. But a lot of babies come unplanned, I sure hope your husband understands, you both are ahead of the game as it is, you are already married =)
Nature will always win.
2006-08-29 02:46:14 · answer #6 · answered by Keanu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want the baby? If you do convince him that it's for the best. If he continues to feel negatively about, you have to choose, him or the baby. If you both decide to not have the baby, make sure you give it away to a good family. Do you anyone who wants one?
2006-08-29 02:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by leo_7_28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your pregnant your pregnant theres nothing you or anyone can do about it unless you get an abortion but i strongly DON'T recommend that i had one and a still till this day i wish and wish over and over that i didnt get it done but if you are then your husband is just going to have to deal with it isnt he
2006-08-29 11:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by marriedw1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you're the one who doesn't want a baby, and unless you'd be willing to terminate the pregnancy, your husband had better adjust.
2006-08-29 02:48:42 · answer #9 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too late hun! If he REALLY didnt want one he wouldnt have had un protected sex with you...He's just as reasponsible. You sit down like the adults you were having sex and come to a decision....Think of the child only and first!
2006-08-29 02:39:39 · answer #10 · answered by Brianne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋