My boyfriend and I have been together for a long *** time. Our sex life is wonderful but why is it whenever he wants sex, I am so willing any time of the day, night, basically whenever he wants it he gets it; but when I want it its completely opposite. We only are allowed to have sex when he's in the mood or when he wants it. It's quite annoying and frustrating. It makes me feel inadequate at times and I don't know what to do. When I tell him about it he always says I'm whining and that he doesn't understand what I am talking about since we have sex quite frequently. Am I being a nympho and asking for it to much, or is it weird that I have to even ask. Maybe I'm being weird, what do you think?
2006-08-28 19:32:20 · 10 answers · asked by Ro Ro 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i dont think you are being wierd. i had the same problem until my husband just came out and told me that he has to be in the mood or it wont get up very well. so just do it when he is ready and even if he wont admit to it, that is the reason he turns you down sometimes.
2006-08-28 19:37:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the difference between a man and women. Men have to have an errection before they perform sex whereas females do not have this kinda problem. Next time do not ask him simply be close to him and try to arouse him by foreplay etc
2006-08-28 19:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you using sex to hold on to him or something? Something in this story just doesn't sound right. Truthfully...you shouldn't have to beg! You were born with more than enough wiles to get him to do almost anything you want him to. You just need to walk...talk...look...and act the right way when you want it. Good Luck!
2006-08-28 19:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being stupid. Stop being so accommodating. Matter of fact, cut his *** off. Then the next time you approach him for sex he'll be almost thru before you can get your panties off.
2006-08-28 19:47:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could just be simple as your sex drive is simply higher, try getting yourself a toy to keep busy or get a hobby if i starts to get serious try therapy
2006-08-28 19:36:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, that is the way of life! When he wants it you must just bend over or lay down and take your pants down! When you want it there is always a problem, excuse or story!
YOU ARE NO NUMPHO, YOUR JUST NOT SATISFIED!!!
2006-08-28 20:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, never too much, next time you want it, just go down on him, start su cking him, and when its hard, you get on top, he wont stop you, if he does, look me up.///
2006-08-28 19:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its like a game you half to be smarter then what you are working with,the next time you want some then all you half to is start kissing on his ----.now don't ask him for some you just start kissing on it .
2006-08-28 19:42:01 · answer #8 · answered by lovinonly#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never have to beg, unless you are a begger.
2006-08-28 19:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
down on your knees, and beg,
2006-08-28 19:36:33 · answer #10 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋