Whats the rush? It seems like people are so quick to say they found the love of their life at 18...and divorced by 21.
2006-08-28 19:17:11 · 16 answers · asked by Drea 2 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
"Facade" - thanks for the correction :) sorry about that!
2006-08-28 20:54:42 · update #1
LOL!
people just forgot the diffrence between love and lust.
and I also feel its a lack of love for God and such....
people have a real void in their life and they want someone to fill it, but they dont realize no one is perfect but God, so they go looking for other things.
2006-08-29 14:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean facade. It's a French-derived word and it's supposed to be spelled with one of those little marks under the c so you know to pronounce c like s. It means a false front, a decorative illusion where a married person might hide his or her loneliness and insecurity, secretly starving for affection and closeness, forbidden from seeking the intimacy he or she really needs. So, no- marriage is not a facade at all. We're doing really, really fine.
2006-08-28 19:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by anyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 is to early to get married. 25-28 is the proper age. When you are 18-20 years old and you like somebody you may think it's love when in fact it isn't and that's the mistake many people make, and sadly such young couples have children who will suffer later, not only from the divorce but also from the lack of maturity from their parents....A marriage is a life commitment so there is no need to rush things, I believe...
2006-08-28 19:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by Λиδѓεy™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fisad? Fisad? I certainly hope not. This sounds like a serious disease. Marriage is wonderful if done correctly. It should be more difficult to get married than get a divorce. That would greatly reduce the high divorce rate. By the way, what is a fisad?
2006-08-28 19:21:24 · answer #4 · answered by Teacher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, marriage is not a fisad. if two people are in love and are mature enough to know that they will stick together, 18 or 28, doesn't matter. of course more people have that maturity later on in life, but i've known a lot of couples in their later 20s or 30s, or even 40s, who still don't have that maturity.
2006-08-28 19:22:47 · answer #5 · answered by lucas w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People don't know how to make a marriage work anymore. They think it will magically be happy and when it's not they give up. Marriage takes real commitement and in our instant gratification society people are too lazy.
What is a fisad, by the way.
2006-08-28 19:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people marry for difference reasons, sometimes love it included. No, I do not think it's a facade.
2006-08-28 19:30:18 · answer #7 · answered by FerretLover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real marriage will always be faulty because man is faulty. A person marries another for what they have, but no one possesses anything perfect so there is divorce.True love is needed. What is it? No greater love has any man then this that he lay down his life for his friend. Jesus in analogy and illustration is going to marry His true church. Christians can also have real marriage because they have the love of God that say "i will lay down my life, or self deny" Jesus died for us even while we were sinners so that our sins could be paid for. If you turn from sin and trust Jesus for forgiveness and not your own rigtheousness you too can be married to God in eternity.
2006-08-28 20:26:35 · answer #8 · answered by dt 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
facade?
No. its not. but I got married older.. and will be married 10 years in 2 weeks.
2006-08-28 19:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1st try not making a life commitment before the age 25. 2nd lust doesn't equal love , It makes me sad that the new generation can't see the difference between the two
2006-08-28 20:38:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋