I was with a guy for 41/2 years and he broke up with im not goin 2 get in2 it but he broke my heart. I never thought i could move on. Finally,i met some1 else & we have been dating for 4 mnths & of course it was great in the beginning then things started gettin shaky bc he doesnt call or i should say give me enuff attention i deserve. I do everything wit him but i will not kiss him ya i kno dont ask im just scared! Now this is retarted but im pregnant & we never kissed. He wants the abortion for good reasons & so do i but another part of me is scared to have it bc of my future i dont want nothin 2 go wrong & i dont want 2 live with the guilt.My other problems that ive been dealin wit on top of bein preg. is my dad hes been in ny 4 almost 3 mnths bc he has colone cancer that hes been fightin for yrs & i jus want him 2 come home. & my bestfriend just moved out of jersey & went to georgia wit her mom which she is preg. a week ahead of me so its weird. Everything is changing.
2006-08-28 19:13:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Certainly your life will change very soon. You will have to get prepared to bring a new life to this world. You also need to see a counselor.
2006-08-28 19:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God angel please do not kill your baby if you do not want the baby give it up for adoption there are always families out there looking to adopt because they can not have children of their own and they will take good care of your baby and in some cases you can get a open adoption where you would be able to keep in contact with the child and the adopted parents if you chose to or you could do a close adoption where you could just disappear and in some cases the family will pay all your medical bills and help you live in a safe home up until the time that the baby is born just please consider this before making up your mine to kill your child just because you do not want to have him or her you never know that baby in your belly could be the one to find a way to have world peace or accomplish something great to that effect I beg of you to please give you son or daughter a chance to grow up and live a long and happy life. Abortion is the same thing as murder the moment a your child was conceived it became a person with a soul and children are a gift from god so if you are not ready to receive this gift help some one who can not receive this gift
2006-08-28 19:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by Shannon T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to put yourself and your father first. Abortion is a hard choice but if youre young you cannot have much financially or emotionally to offer a baby, and to carry a baby for 9 months just to give it away seems extreme, plus all the added stress of having to explain to everyone that youre not actually keeping the baby and the stress it may or may not cause your father. It's completely your decision but you are not a murderer for having an abortion, but make sure you can cope with whatever you decide.
2006-08-28 23:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by phonics 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure if you want to have an abortion you can always have the baby and give it up for adoption. There are so many people out there that cannot have kids of their own that would love to adopt a newborn. Give your baby a chance at a good life.
2006-08-28 19:22:14 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have gotten a hard dose of grown up. Things in life aren't easy and I am sorry that you have to go through all of this at such a young age. Speaking from experience, if you have that abortion you will regret it for the rest of your life. You will have guilt the same as you would if you killed someone. You don't have to keep the baby. You can have the baby and give it to a family who really wants it. Many times in private adoption the adoptive parents will pay for your medical expenses. Please consider this. Give that baby a chance to be who God wants it to be.
2006-08-28 19:21:05 · answer #5 · answered by sexyheater 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think of it this way, there must be some reason for God to let you be pregnant right now, maybe this child could change your life or your guy friends life.... just think about the future, not just the today, your child could find cures for things that we dont have cures for now...... your child could be a president.... you should have the child and if you dont want to "deal" with it, give the child up for adoption, plenty of people want children
2006-09-01 15:23:00 · answer #6 · answered by Leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's life, it changes. You'd better hurry up and make a decision concerning your pregnancy, and maybe next time take enough time to get to know someone before having sex and making babies.
2006-08-28 19:20:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will regret if you do an abortion. It's your child.A gift from God. If this guy really loves you he wont ask you to do that. Have your baby. Be happy. God bless you.
2006-08-28 19:25:02 · answer #8 · answered by cb56br 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of problems... But you know what? ALL PEOPLE have LOTS of problems like you too!..
Believe me, dont abort your baby, thats a gift from GOD i think....
Yes.... you'll feel guilty after you abort that.....
Whoever his/her dad is?....
just raise her/him up! Dont be shy or afraid of people around you. Thats your baby thats your life you take care of it, dont listen to them.
If you didnt kiss with your bf, it means that baby was your ex's....
Im sad to hear about your dad!
But do you think your dad will feel happr if you abort your baby?
Im sure NO!
Just pray fir him, take care of him and your baby too....
then find your TRUE lover....
even it takes years.....
A man who'll love your baby like his own baby.......
GOODLUCK!!!!!!
I WISH YOUR FATHER WELL.......
Dont be sad.......
you can overcome it....
BE STRONG GIRL!!!!!!!
2006-08-28 19:25:43 · answer #9 · answered by dianne45a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the guy
Have the baby
Give it up for adoption
Get on with your life then!
2006-08-28 19:20:17 · answer #10 · answered by jennifersuem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋