I like this boy who is two years older than me and i really like him. The problem is he has a girlfriend. I don't know how to get over him because i dont want to have to beat the girlfriend. We talk a little, but i cant stop thinking about him. He is just so fine..... What do i do. I know i'm 13 but i need help. please!!!!!
2006-08-28 18:46:39 · 16 answers · asked by Crazy Chick 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
find someone who doesn't have a girl,,,,,,,,you don't want to grow up to be a home wrecker,,,lol,,,,
try focusing on someone else,, or school or something like that,,,,,,,,maybe that will help you to stop thinking about him
2006-08-28 18:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wait for the break-up. Do you know the percentage of teen relationships (particularly pre-sixteens) that actually last more than six months? Believe me, the ones that don't last more than two months are far more numerous. Chances are, if he's been with her a while, his time slots will be opening up pretty soon without any need for violence.
Second of all, take what you've said for an example. "I don't know how to get over him...i cant stop thinking about him. He is just so fine......". I'm sure he's a nice boy and you get along with him well, but be honest...your first reason for being so attracted to him is because you find him good-looking. Right? Well, I think your chances of being his next object of affection will probably be by the same priorities.
I don't mean that in a derogatory way. It's just that most teenagers don't see a whole lot more in a person beyond the physical appearance (some people never get past that, even when they're older). It's actually pretty normal for your age.
Here's my real advise. Don't sweat it! You've got a crush. Crushes come and go. Your tastes will change a hundred times in the next four or five years. Also, perfectly normal. Yeah, you've got a good chance of being his next girlfriend. I don't have to know either of you to know that. But you really should wait until you're old enough to be with someone who is also old enough to appreciate you for who you are rather than what you look like...and as you get older, you'll get a better idea of what type of person you like, not just what kind of looks you're attracted to. Good looks don't hurt anything, but a bad personality can hurt you a lot. Be patient, you've got a lot of life ahead of you.
2006-08-28 19:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by aghostprofilebeingempty 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everyone else pretty much. The only thing I'd add is that if the guy is so "fine" to you, then I'm pretty sure he's fine to someone else, other than his girlfriend. In other words, if he breaks up with his girlfriend and decides to be with you, there will be someone like you waiting for him to break up with you, or posting messages like this one, wondering if they should beat you up.
Also, violence is never the answer when it comes to being with a man. When your mind starts to consider violence as a solution to be with a boy/man then you really need to check yourself. Besides, I doubt beating up his girlfriend will make him want to be with you. It might even make you the "crazy girl" that goes around beating up on people for stupid reasons. If he wants to be with you, he will be with you.
Finally, at 13 you might want to think about this, "what goes around comes around". The way you get a man, may be the way you lose him.
2006-08-28 22:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by Nuseed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you do need help because you obviously have issues.
The boy has a girlfriend. What part of that don't you understand?
You're only 13 years old. Who taught you that it was ok to go after a boy who is already taken? It's not!
2006-08-28 18:51:49 · answer #4 · answered by tina m 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll advice u to leave him alone. Even if u get rid of his girlfriend, someone else might one day get rid of u too to have him. Do what u would like to be done to u.
2006-09-01 17:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by hope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why would you want to beat the girl up she didnt do anything, and second of all he is taken thier are so many guys out there
2006-08-28 18:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
THINK: What would you do if someone likes your boyfriend? If this happens to you...would you like it? Of course NOT... I believe every action you take will back to you in the future. If you act positive, it will bring positive result back to you and if you act negative, you'll suffer in future.
SOLUTION: Find someone else :-)
2006-08-28 19:49:33 · answer #7 · answered by ms.bigheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 years old, is the period of making friends as much as possible, not the time to date boyfriend.
You don't have to have a boy friend.
but you could admire / adore some boys, don't date them.
It will trap you to the circle of sex, that will ruin your future.
2006-08-28 18:57:09 · answer #8 · answered by ooowen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A 2 point jump shot
2006-08-28 18:48:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Wake up!
1st - u r oni 13!
2nd - he has a gf....leave them alone
3rd - u will hv yr chance when u "grow up"
2006-08-28 18:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by D@ 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋