both, depends on the mood. sometimes it's nice to relinquish all authority and be told what to do, other times it's nice to be the controller
2006-08-28 18:41:58
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answer #1
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answered by Toyman 3
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Everyone plays control games. Some actually get off on it.
While many control others out of fear that one will try and control them.
The Celestine Prophesies books state that we play control
dramas, because we have cut ourself off from the Source of
Life. And do this controlling to manipulate other peoples energy.
The dramas are "the poor me", who makes you feel sorry for
them. The "intimidater", that blows up. The "interrogator", who
asks questions until one finds something he can use against you. And the "aloof", who gives you the silent treatment.
Supposedly, we all fit into one of these categories. But of
course, if we would accept the LIFE that is all around us. We
could refrain from doing these things.
2006-08-28 18:46:51
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answer #2
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answered by Tegghiaio Aldobrandi 3
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I like to be in control for the most part.
2006-08-28 18:38:18
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answer #3
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answered by kepjr100 7
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I am a man control is a must
because there is no middle either your being controlled or controlling
2006-08-29 13:20:10
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answered by Xae 6
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that is a tough question as I feel that it depends on the situation. By that I mean that I am comfortable in either role as the situation dictates. For sure if some else is the subject matter expert I would willingly wish them to take charge, however if it is something that I excel in I would be just as comfortable taking the lead. Or do you mean this in a sexual context? If so, I am wanting to try out being submissive as I have discovered that I get much pleasure from pleasing others.
2006-08-28 20:51:33
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answer #5
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answered by niceguy2night1234 2
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Well if you are talking in the bed room I love to be controlled if you are talking about in everyday life try and control me and you are gonna have He** to pay
2006-08-28 18:40:07
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answer #6
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answered by Shannon T 2
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to be contolled by loved ones and control the rest. However as general principle of world the VICE holds true.
2006-08-28 18:38:58
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answered by strange_raga 4
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I'm a controller. I even irritate myself sometimes!
2006-08-28 18:42:08
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answered by JillyJilly2x4 2
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No body gooing to control me
2006-08-29 03:05:18
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answered by Anonymous
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To help or guide if asked. I had sufficient of would be control "freaks?" from my late partner Gwenneth's family.
Rose P.
2006-08-28 18:43:09
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answered by rose p 7
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