or just crashed a wedding for that matter
2006-08-28 18:07:59 · 21 answers · asked by skurj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've only been invited to a few, but I've RSVP'd to all of them in one way or another. Never crashed a wedding... don't think I'd really know how or have the courage to do so, actually.
2006-08-28 18:11:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isn't impolite to do this yet you could observe that putting a date received't guarentee that persons reply. what's likely to ensue is that persons will ensue even with in the journey that they did not RSVP. What will be very impolite is to inform those that they are uninvited in the journey that they don't adjust on your decrease off date. how can you tell Aunt Sally that she desires to flow back living house because in view that she did not RSVP she can not are available and attend. in case you probably did not count number her contained in the wide type given to the caterer, there'll be no foodstuff for her. not so undesirable no matter if it really is a buffet yet no matter if it really is a sit plated dinner then she will be out of success and also you've a soured a courting/ brilliant element is to ask those you want and then contact them on the decrease off date and ask in the journey that they'll be attending or not. No this can not be on you yet because you're the guy who will ultimately have the region you could be the single to remedy it. I have in no way heard of a decrease off date the position the bride actual expects to diminish human beings off yet when this is what you want to take action be it. purely be prepared for what could ensue even as human beings do not RSVP and nevertheless ensue on the marriage
2016-12-05 21:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by bucks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never personally gone to a wedding without RSVP'ing, but it's something that isn't very "cooth." Keep in mind - weddings cost A LOT OF MONEY, and whoever's paying for the wedding, reception, etc. needs to have a pretty accurate head-count to accuratley estimate their costs. Basically, you're taking money out of their pocket that they weren't planning on spending... BUT, that's not to say that if the person is important to you, or if you're important to them, that you shouldn't go. Friends and family are more important than money =)
2006-08-28 18:13:45 · answer #3 · answered by drewbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always rsvp to a wedding because it's etiquette and wherever the reception is always needs a head count so enough food is provided.
2006-08-28 18:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by mergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought that only happens in another country outside of USA. Usually people are polite in responding to the invite and don't crash anybody's party. What a shame if people are doing this.
2006-08-28 18:12:00 · answer #5 · answered by Darkangel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never! That is so ignorant and rude. Almost as rude as bringing uninvited guests. Yes, some do. If you haven't responded then don't go. Amazing the rudeness and ignorance in these matters.
2006-08-28 18:24:18 · answer #6 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that is just rude ... receptions are charged by the plate so if more people show up than expected there won't be enough food ... also if people do rsvp and then don't go there is no refund.
2006-08-28 18:10:49 · answer #7 · answered by evilprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not me, but many have. What you can do is charge a small fee to anyone who comes without notice, since you weren't prepared to pa y for their seat, food, and spot at the table.
2006-08-28 18:10:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
. . . I usually skip the wedding but crash the party if there's a free bar . . .
2006-08-28 18:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by Astra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
35% I don't rsvp but I do try most of the time.
2006-08-28 18:20:40 · answer #10 · answered by Dana J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋