Is it possible to be in love after one month?

Question

How long should one wait before deciding on marriage and such? Is 19 an 20 too young to be married? Even if funds and housing are not an issue?

Answer 1

there are tests to take to see if you have the same plans for child rearing etc. /check that out and yeah, love can knock your lights out at first sight.

Answer 2

Yes it is possible!
It all depends how you met and what connection you had from the start. If you find that you both have alot in common it makes it much more easier. However sometimes when you fall like that you still need to look out for yourself and not do things to quickly. Now some people would say yes that you are to young to get married and what would be the rush if you just wait a little. I say wait at least a year which usually enough time to plan a wedding. Get to the know the person a little by the way they handle finances, family , relationships with friends, and living with you for some time. Then you will look into your heart and know if your needs and wants are the same with the person you love.

Answer 3

In my personal opinion love has no limits I mean there is a thing called love at first sight isn't there?? Yes, there is so love has no time limits I don't think it's right for people to give the speech saying your too young to know what love is or saying that people are too young if you feel your experiencing that roller coaster ride feeling and that your heart can fly more power to you and for people to decide on marriage it has nothing to do with age what it has to do with is if you feel the both of you are ready if both of the people feel their ready for marriage good luck to them I'm 22 and my husband is 24 when we got married I was 18 he was 20 we've been married for 4 years and we have a great marriage we love eachother so much and we don't regret it we even have a boy and girl together marriage always has it's ups and downs it's up to the both of you to make it work if someone says your too young or you can't be in love don't listen to them only you know how you feel noone can tell you your not in love or too young especially when their not you only you know what is and what isn't

Answer 4

If you spend a lot of quality time together, it's possible to be in love after such a short time, but I don't think it's very likely, at your age. Anyway, you should wait a while longer, be more certain of your feelings, and mature more, before you make such a serious decision as whether or not to marry.

Answer 5

I don't think a month is too soon. The important thing is to have all the "big" conversations before you tie the knot. Have kids? How to handle finances? Holidays? In-laws? Religion? Marriage in general?

As corny as it sounds, I think Dr. Phil has a check list in one of his books. As long as you two are honest and on the same page, congrats! You are some of the lucky one's that have found their loves early in life.

My husband and I have been together seven years, married almost five. We knew within days that we were better together than we were apart. I was 19 and he was 23 when we met.

One thing I do recommend, of you can, is a geographical separation of a few months. We lived together right away, then after a year and a half, some bad things happened, and he moved across the country. I didn't know if we could still be together, but after a week or so, I KNEW I needed him in my life.

And to all the older people who question the two of you, ask them when they got married.

Answer 6

Each couple have different times. Some couples marry young, some old. I think that you should know if you should wait, or not.

I've seen marriage that prevail with only a short time together before marriage, and couples with 10 years of being bf & gr break after 1 year marriage.

Anyway, sometimes consider that at your age there are lot of things that you don't know about yourself. I thought I knew everything of what I am and wanted at that age, but I've learned more since then than before. Maybe you can spend some time dating before deciding to tie the knot. Right now, you most probably only know the good parts of him, wait until you learn his weak side.

good luck!

Answer 7

I think there is such a thing as love at first site,although i do believe a couple needs to get to know each other for a while before marriage.

Answer 8

there is not a time frame for love u will know it when it happens i know a lot of people who were toegther a while before getting married and then end up divorced later on i met my husband one night moved in with him the next week and married 4 months later and we have been going strong for 13 years now we just knew we were meant to be toegther. So u will know it and remember your love will become your best friend your lover and all that it the end it will just be u 2. and just one more thing i have asked my friends over the years before getting married, if your spouse to be was god forbit in a bad accident and lost a limb or became paralized would u still love them unconditionally and be there to support them or would u leave? answer that question and then u have your answer about love and marriage. Good luck. P.S. love is not always about money it is commitment and and working toegther to make your places in life.

Answer 9

you might be in love it can happen after a second too, their is absolutely no Tim limit for love some people feel in love after some seconds the others never. but to know if you want to spend the rest of you life with someone you really should take you time and don't hurry. that is a very serous matter, and should be consider as such and be good over thought.

Answer 10

I'd say a month is way quick for deciding on marriage. Love, sure, but marriage? That depends on the individual case. Personally, I think 19 and 20 is too young, though if it's love, and if you know what you're getting into, I say go for it. Just make it a long engagement, so you know what to expect when the big day arrives.

Answer 11

Anything is possible but might be a good idea to Waite out a year or two to see if you still feel the same way 19 and 20 is young.