The reason im asking this question is because my friend went up to a girl the other night and her "Hey you want to **** out back" and she was like yeah and so they did. Ive always been shy and normally would try to impress women with my mind. Sadly his approach seems to work way better than mine. What gives?
2006-08-28 17:38:57 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I thought that was exactly what the one night stand is?
I am sure that millions of people the world over have had a one night stand. Granted, your friend didn't have to put much effort in at all but I do know many women who have slept with a guy that they met at the beginning of the night. Usually there is a little more connection, like they are someones friend but I think people meeting having a good time at a club and ending up in the sack before morning comes is a very common thing amongst social singles.
I guess the 'complete stranger' part is the bit that is grossing people out so much.. that's a little different to sleeping with someone you don't really know but know a bit about.
2006-08-28 17:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was she drunk? That would be the only way, I would think, unless the girl is just a tramp. Why would you want to have sex with someone like that anyway. Do you want transmitted diseases?
Be proud of your way. The right girl will have sex with you.
But it also depends on what kind of subjects you are using to impress them with your mind. Try not to bore them. Find out what they are interested in and talk about that, even if it doesn't interest you.
2006-08-28 17:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by sassy57 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has less civilized characteristics than you do. Ditch your friend. He's little better than an animal in the wild. Do yourself a favor and choose the integrity side of a physical relationship. Almost anyone can have sex, but not everyone can make love. Just what is it that you want?
2006-08-28 19:14:58 · answer #3 · answered by Teacher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should be jealous of your friend. When it comes time to have a real relationship or get married he will probably find it too hard to relate when he looks back on the good old days ( I'm saying that sarcastically) when he didnt have to please anyone first. Stick to forming a relationship and you will be more satisfied. I have tried it both ways and I have to say that if I could do it all again I just would have waited until my wedding day.
2006-08-28 19:20:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a woman, but I can tell you that trying to impress them with your mind doesn't work. They all want someone who can get to them in ways that decent, respectful guys can't. These women who are answering your question are not being honest with you. Believe me, I've seen how they operate. I've watched and observed the kinds of guys they run off with.
2006-08-28 17:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yucky you have way more class than your friend and in the long run youll win because youll find a nice woman to be with not a trollop. use your mind it will impress the right woman i promise. oh and no i would never do that. good luck.
2006-08-28 17:44:00 · answer #6 · answered by irunwithscissors25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women are into the primitive thing- I don't think its worth the STD personally. I think most women (and men) who are that impulsive dont live very happy lives anyway if they're always looking for a "quick fix"
2006-08-28 17:41:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't.
Your friends approach on scale 1 to 10 would be -10000000000 or lower.
So, you would definitely have much better chances with me.
2006-08-28 20:44:11 · answer #8 · answered by no one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that is totally gross. That man could have a disease! Besides I want a deeper relationship with a person than just sex.
2006-08-28 17:45:18 · answer #9 · answered by i_luv_the_irish23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was very young i did all the time but when i grew up i got some self respect and learnt that they were only using me also it wouldnt interest me now, now i would only do it with a stranger is if SHE asked me, not a he
2006-08-29 05:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋