I have been married with my husband for 3 years. We are having major problems & I have surely changed. I believed I married too young and he is 11 years older than me. I have suggested a wedding counselor but the husband refuses. I have a friend whom I am very attractive to and he is attractive me. We have made out only once and no sex. He is in a relationship where he is unhappy as well. I am a black women & both my husband and attractive friend are white.
Today my attractive friend told me that he had a dream about me but I specifically wasn't in the dream. In his dream he was searching for a black women whom he could not find. Also, he was very upset that he could not find the black women. He woke up & could not go back to sleep. He views the dream as though he was searching for me, being that we like each other and he has never made out or been with in another black women.
How do you interept his dream of searching for a black woman who he cannot find?
2006-08-28 17:32:19 · 9 answers · asked by Looking 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like hes trying to tell you something sweetheart.. Better weigh it agenced what you have now, you could loose...Then again you could really enjoy it...Never know...Your friend from Tennessee..By the way I'm also am a white guy who thinks black is beautifull....ROB
2006-08-28 17:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should tell your husband that you are in love with another man and get a divorce... You would much rather tell him yourself than to have him find out on his own. As of this dream, the other dude just likes you and wants to be in a relationship with you. Before you proceed any further with the relationship you should tell your husband because someone will get hurt...
You may start a relationship with the other guy and continue to stay with your husband which will cause grief for all three of you and no one will be happy. Plus you don't want to get caught having an affair. (you could have to pay out a lot money in alimony or someone could get hurt physically resulting in jail time for the other person).
2006-08-29 03:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by BORED AT WORK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many times we try and read too much into dreams...people have a tendancy to get a little freudean when it comes to opposite sex dreams. For all you know he could have seen a Halle Berry movie before bed....that would fire up a dream for 99% of the men out there. Your issues are with your relationship with your husband, don't look for the easy way out and use a dream to justify the rest of your life with or without your husband.
KaptainK
2006-08-28 17:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by KaptainKahn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person’s life is full of dreams. Dream can be about one’s ambition which he gets fulfilled with the passage of time thru his own hard work, intelligence, good planning and with the blessings of Almighty. Another is day dreaming which is really not a good habit and can be controlled with one’s will power. But what about the dreams a person experiences during sleep. Do they hv effect in our real life? What do they mean? What is their interpretation? The person asks to his friends, elders and seniors in his social circle. Sometimes he gets satisfactory reply and sometimes not. These days Internet is a rich source of information. So one does not need to depend on others for one’s dream interpretation. The Yahansmaniac Community member suggests the following.
http://dream-interpretation.readabout.net/
http://www.psychicguild.com/dream.php
http://www.insightful-dream-interpretation.info/dream-interpretation-free.html
http://www.edgarcayce.org/dreams/freedreaminterpretation.asp
http://www.spiritcommunity.com/free-dream-interpretation.htm
http://www.handresearch.com/hand/Evolutie/dream-interpretation.htm
http://www.dreamdoctor.com/
http://www.divinedivination.com/dreams.html
http://www.dream-guru.com/free-dream-interpretation.html
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Please visit the above pages to find the interpretation of ur dreams and to satisfy ur different queries about dreams. I hope, it helps u.
2006-08-28 18:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the black woman represent something in his soul that he is looking for.He might be very confused about his feelings .You might have triggered some repressed feelings in him.You know most of the dreams are from subconcious ,something is bothering him,he's looking for answers...Only he knows .
Anyways i think you two should figure what you guys really want.You are playing with fire and your husband might find out what's going on beetween you two.
Be careful and good luck!
2006-08-28 17:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows maybe he is thinking of you , but knows he cannot have you.The dream is not the problem ,How do you make out without sex?In my opinion cheating is cheating,you don't have to have intercourse to cheat.If you don't love the man you are with,don't disrespect him by fooling around,talk to him about your feelings and see what he has to say.It may be time to move on.Just remember that new relationships are always exciting and the grass is not always greener on the other side.
2006-08-28 17:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by Tom S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that before you try to interpret this dream, you need to divorce your husband if you no longer love him.
2006-08-28 17:37:04 · answer #7 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is interpreted that you are a filthy cheating whore.
2006-08-28 17:39:27 · answer #8 · answered by Lothario 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh? what?
2006-08-28 17:40:38 · answer #9 · answered by dirtyhungrythirsty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋