My husbenb is looking at ladies And having thoughts about them Sex and looking at pron. on the coumpter its been a year of this and he cheated on me 7 months ago and i found out he is still looking at girls
2006-08-28 17:22:11 · 10 answers · asked by lisa h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is OK to look...but don't act on it!....Married men are like dogs in a leash....they can bark but they can not bite.
2006-08-28 17:25:30 · answer #1 · answered by alandicho 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your husband has realized that the marriage is YOUR marriage, not his. He may been suppressing some feelings he has had for a long time, and cannot stand it anymore. Sounds like he is trying to drive you off, this is peculiar because this is the trait found mostly in women. Women usually refer to as 'outgrowing the relationship,' or some kind of spin like that. Go down to WalMart and get some ashtrays and wait him out.
2006-08-28 17:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by toooextreeeme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband does not have the problem, you have the problem being married to him if he is not "faithful" he is not going to just stop..
You better decide that you deserve better, and take the steps to end your "hell"
THERE ARE GOOD MEN AVAILABLE, REMEMBER THAT,
Many men, cheat, not all .. that is the good news for you.
and every person who promises to marrry and stay faithful for life, is obligated to do that, just as you are,
If you really believe he will get it together, and be faithful,
then get counseling, and if he is not willing, you have two choices, LIVE WITH IT,
AND IT WILL GET WORSE, AND THE RESPECT HE USED TO GIVE YOU WILL GET LESS AND LESS
OR GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE, AND FIRE HIM AS A HUSBAND, AND GET A DIVORCE, AND THEN GET A REAL MAN,, AN honorable one,
that is it,,
good luck, and i am sorry for your pain, and you do not have to live like that,,
2006-08-28 17:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have self assurance it or no longer, a good number of girls look at porn, merely like adult males, they simply won't admit to it. Ha, i'm no longer 18-21 yet, yet i've got appeared at it earlier. that's no longer undesirable. We study from it, you recognize..
2016-12-11 17:03:23 · answer #4 · answered by dricketts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet Girl, you are the one with the problem It doesn't sound to me like he is having any problems at all. You need to do what you need to do for yourself and make yourself happy.
2006-08-28 17:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be happy that he IS just looking and not acting out. i've lived this same problem for 15 yrs and its better they do it in the comfort of their own home instead of in the street. (for our sakes too..)
2006-08-28 17:36:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too have the same problem and as result, "lost" my wife and two beautiful daughters to another m-focker and I am still not done with my "barking" - God help me pleaseeee!!
2006-08-28 17:27:26 · answer #7 · answered by Jose T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like I'd be thinking of cheating too, or getting rid of this guy?
2006-08-28 17:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by chick d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was he this way before you got married??
2006-08-28 17:47:16 · answer #9 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and leave this loser
2006-08-28 17:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋