He has been doing this for 8 weeks. We work together. He touches my fingers all the time. He knows that people have been talking. I feel that he is hitting on me. I looked at his eyes and he didn't stop looking for one minute. We went out to lunch with some friends, and he handed me a rose from the table. Could he be gay? He doesn't seem to have a girlfriend. Confused. One of his close friends told me that she thinks that he is.
2006-08-28 17:10:59 · 32 answers · asked by Christopher Boston 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes, he's gay. Could he make it any more obvious? Tell him you are flattered but no thanks.
2006-08-28 17:15:03 · answer #1 · answered by Bethany 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well first if you unlike it which i think you do tell him to stop or you will sue his butt off into the next year and trust me you will win the case since you have some witnesses. Also threaten him that you will get him fired. I forget what this is called but it is were that person cant get within a certain amount of yards to you or he goes to jail, you might want to look into that. Now if you take this advice have some close friends to back you up so that you stay strong and that he cant bring you any harm if he is cray or that type of person. Whether he is gay or not is no excuse. Get this fixed now in till it goes way to far. And if you like this...well I have nothing to say about that.
2006-08-28 17:23:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just because man hands you a rose-how romantic of him-does not even hint at him being gay----called romance. The man likes you and sending you some Strong signals-the finger touching(sensuous) and the leg touching(definite hitting on you). Believe me a man who is gay would not be touching your fingers or your leg,especially your leg for gay means having NO interest in the opposite sex. What makes you think he's gay??? Lots of guys-STRAIGHT-do not have girlfriends------maybe he'd like you to be his. Woman-do you need to clubbed over the head and dragged by your hair? The man is NOT gay and YES he is hitting on you.
2006-08-28 17:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i probably wouldnt be touch a girl like that, unless i had some sort of interest. go for it. or if your still unsure, up the 'flirty touching' a bit. next time it happens just do a little more.
2016-03-26 23:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by Sharon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Christopher, the answer is simple.
♥If you are a guy, then yes! he is gay or bisexual and is hitting on you.
♥If you are a girl, then no, he is not gay, might be bisexual and is flirting with you.
So you see in both instances, the guy is into you. So if you are interested I suggest you make your move to let him know, and if your not interested then let him know too.
Good Luck! ♠
2006-08-28 17:40:33 · answer #5 · answered by Dante 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like him? Avoid him for now and if he tries to approach you, start to make up a story about having a new gf and you are gonna pop a question. If he seems consistent with touching, talk to him about it nicely. You can ask something like, "Man, I have a feeling that you like me. Is it serious? I am sorry, but I have a gf."
2006-08-28 17:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by azngurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he act gay?...does he tell you he likes your hair...or outfit...does he talk gay?...if not, he could really be showing you he likes you those are the ways to do it...and the other girl could just be jealous....anyway no matter what..you still have a great friend!
2006-08-28 17:15:20 · answer #7 · answered by Liz S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From the signs you have just mentioned id say he is not gay at all. In fact i think he likes you, probably quite alot and it subtly trying to let you know.
2006-08-28 17:13:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he's definitely in love with you. You must be in serious denial if you let it go on for 2 months! You should probably talk to him and just say that you don't go that way (unless you do).
2006-08-28 17:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by chance 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ye i reckon he is gay. reading your question, i thought it was quite normal for mates to do that sort of stuff, like say, if i spank my mate in his @rse, that's just sorta fooling around... but when you mentioned that he has been doing that for 8 weeks, that's quite disturbing. i reckon you should go to a pub and talk about it like what normal mates do.
2006-08-28 17:21:35 · answer #10 · answered by jose 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is hitting on your or he is a womaniser and a user of woman and because you have not said anything it would make it work.
Try asking him and finding the answer, unless you don't like him, them slowly drift away
2006-08-28 17:14:04 · answer #11 · answered by zach_528 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋