15...never been asked out?

Question

I am 15 years old and have never had a bf. Even worse, i have never been asked out, and i dont think anybody even likes me! its so depressing, but i think i am too ugly for a bf and that makes me sad. i know most of you will say "oh dont worry the right guy will come" or "you're too young" or "stop feeling sorry for yourself". so if you are about to make one of these comments, please refrain, because i dont really want to hear them. what should i do and do any of you have the same problem? if so, id like to know! :(

Answer 1

------------"Girls--------------
-----------are like apples------
-------on trees. The best ones-----
-----are at the top of the tree.-----
---The boys dont want to reach---
--for the good ones because they--
-r afraid of falling and getting hurt.-
-Instead, they get the rotten apples-
from the ground that arent as good,
but easy. So the apples up top think
something wrong w/ them when in
-reality they're amazing. They just--
---have to wait for the right boy to
---- come along, the one who's-
----------- brave enough to-----
---------------climb all---------
---------------the way--------
--------------to the top--------
-------------of the tree."---------

Answer 2

Do you want us to say "YES you're too ugly and dumb and boring and no one will ever date you?"

OF COURSE NOT.

Look, lots of boys your age aren't even interested in girls. And the ones that are usually arent the ones that you want. Boys that age are interested in sports, cars, hobbies, school, whatever. Some of them ask girls out--but many who do are only doing it to get physical, becuase of their horomones. So quit taking it personal. Wait til the boys become MEN and you become a WOMAN and things will come as they should.

I wasn't even ALLOWED to date til I was 16. And it wasnt really fun til I was like 19 cause the boys were either trying to get frisky or they were constantly yapping about something totally uninteresting to me like some football game.

You should:
1) Get some hobbies and talents of your own to fill your interest right now and for the next coupla years
2) focus on school and educating yourself in meaningful ways so tha tyou can be ready to attribute to a relationship when you get into one
3) Get some exercise and get away from the computer so that you release some healthy endorphines that will make you feel better about yourself and stop worrying about what everyone else thinks!!
4) Talk to your parents i fyou really think somehting is screwy about you. They'll be honest.

Answer 3

my dear am 16 n i dont have a boyfriend m constantly teased about it and to top it all i have the same feelings u have except that i dont feel sad n u know what god has reserved some1 special for both of us hes just waiting for the right moment m waitng will u wait with me?and bout ur looks dont worry m ugly too and dont be depressed coz people shud know that ugly doesnt mean ugly character and beautiful doesnt necessarily mean good person be good enjoy life wen the time comes all guyz will be floating all around u and then v have fun

Answer 4

Join clubs. Take up dancing. Make yourself feel and look beautiful and don't be afraid of rejection. You will be fine. You just need to be happy. Happy is attractive. And if all else fails ask some one out yourself. Worse comes to worst he'll say no.

Answer 5

you may not want to hear it but sorry, you are too young. At 15 you should not be asked out. Wait until you are 16 and then only in groups. You have all your life to be an adult, enjoy being a kid for now!
RR

Answer 6

i had the problem too. i met someone online when i was 16 and started to date him when i was 17 and now were going stron ater 2 years. (but dont meet anyone onthe internet sinc ethere are so many predators out there!) yes i knew you didnt want me to say this but it is true that you'll meet someone whether its a work or school and hopefully things will go off form there. and you arent ugly! dont ever say things about yourself, everyone is beatiful in thier own way, whether its their eyes, smile, or a spunky personality =p dont rush yourself with theses things. you dont want to end up being pregnant when ur 16 or 17 do you? lol . my suggestion is to just focus on school right now. you;ll probably meet someone when you go off to college =)

dont worry, be happy! =D

also guys are always interested! maybe they are just intimidated by your beauty and are shy to talk to you!

Answer 7

hey the same thing is happening to me and im 15 and i never been asked out dont think anyone likes me as i mean attarctive. Dont worry if mo one thinks ur attractive that means all the boys in ut town are assholes. Just like my ton al the assholes go out with assholes so i feel ur pain.

Answer 8

I'm almost 13 and I understand. All the losers are dating losers, and you are still stuck with nothing. I've had boys like me before but no one good, and they didn't ask me out. Just be patient. Soon you will have a great guy that likes you for you!

Answer 9

Make friends go to people and talk to them even you are shy try it what can it hurt. Also try and join a club or something like that thru school,church or even thru something aroung where you live.Most girls say they are ugly at 15 so ... And for the boy part try friends first and it should fall in place for you. But if you get the cold shoulder try again.

Answer 10

dont worry y dont you ask someone else out???? it might work out. everyone is beautiful in their own way. So if you think your ugly get a makeover. Like put a bit of make up on. Get a cool hair cut. Trust me itll work out

i hope i helped u :)

Answer 11

You're only 15, you have no business having a boy friend or going out, you are too young.