My husband has a drinking problem and he says all kinds of things that are wierd ! Over the weekend he says as we are talking and he is looped and Im not that he misses being single sometimes .I said u mean to be with other woman and he said no your more woman than I can handle now.He said the peace and quiet .afterall this guy was a bach for all his life.Then in the morning I brought it up and he said no he didnt want to be single.Man Im confused do you beleive a drunk??????????believe me it is quiet around here .
2006-08-28 16:52:50 · 9 answers · asked by jessy 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Yes, you should believe him. Alcohol loosens our inhibitions, and many things that are pent up inside of us are able to come out when we are under the influence.
2006-08-28 17:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by sweet_leaf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Don't believe a drunk.
Doesn't everyone after time with a husband or wife think about being single. I think that's normal but I don't really believe either would prefer that.
A drunk has issues that he can't deal with and is full of some type of hurt and pain.
I hope he gets help some day. I did.
2006-08-29 00:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by sassy57 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that when someone is drunk Is the time the truth really comes out. Being drunk gives them the out let to say what's on there mind and not be held accountable because they were drunk at the time
2006-08-29 00:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by robert d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always believe a drunk. 97% of what they say is the truth. ok, so don't ALWAYS believe a drunk.. But believe most of it. They say things they are usually too afraid to say sober. Some of the things they say are obvious lies or obvious exagerations... That sounds like a truth he is too afraid to admit to sober... I'm sure he loves you, and wouldn't want anything else but to be with you, but even I wish I were single sometimes... And I wouldn't tell my girlfriend that sober, and hopefully not drunk! And just like him, it's not because I want to date other women.. It's that the single life was so much less stressful! I didn't have anyone to worry about but myself, and I didn't have to worry about anyone elses approval, and I could always spend time with my friends. But.. I love being with my girl, and all the sacrifices are well worth it. It's just SOMETIMES I miss being single, too.
2006-08-28 23:59:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is hard work and there moment in every marriage that a person may wonder what it would be like to be single again. Wondering about it and really wanting it are two different things.I believe your husband wants to be married.
2006-08-28 23:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by ~♥ L ♥~ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A drunk man's words are a sober man's thoughts
2006-08-29 00:01:34 · answer #6 · answered by Hel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't believe a drunk/addict. The bigger question should be... What is he willing to do to address his drinking problem? If it continues, you may wish that you were single.
2006-08-29 00:01:53 · answer #7 · answered by Paul P 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I feel your pain. no easy answer for that one. what I think, try not to be around him when he's drunk. if he's not gonna take responsibility for what he says at that time, the less you'll be there, the less confusion you'll face.
2006-08-29 00:04:09 · answer #8 · answered by Ann B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't ; but it still doesn't give you comfort when your drunk gets hateful or hurtful .
2006-08-29 00:05:53 · answer #9 · answered by missmayzie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋