2006-08-28 16:40:46 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sit down and talk to your parents about their reasonings.. Don't get pissy or throw a tantrum. Show them you can discuss it like an adult. Come up with a few good reasons (and by good I don't mean 'But Mom, he's soooo hot!) why he would be a good boyfriend for you. If they don't see your side of it, forget about him and respect their wishes. You may not like it but they're doing their jobs as parents...which is a rare thing nowadays.
2006-08-28 16:46:37 · answer #1 · answered by Lucy_Fir 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how old are you and how old is the boy? Why do your parents say they don't like him? You have to understand, after you've lived as long as a parent, you get a sort of sixth sense about people when you first meet them. Just an impression, but it can be very strong. It takes many years to develop this, so your parents may be sensing something wrong that you can't pick up. Your parents ARE NOT THE ENEMY. They are the ones who really care and want to see you grow up and have a happy life.
2006-08-28 16:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by Beth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your parents have seen all the crap people pull when growing up and they see something in this guy that you don't want to be a part of.
Oh sure, you think he's exciting, he's cool, but think on this.
Who is smarter? A kid in sixth grade or ninth?
A kid in ninth grade or twelfth?
Your parents are way beyond twelfth grade. They have been learning more and more about life ever since they graduated from school and are a lot smarter than any twelfth grader you will ever meet. They see something in this cool guy that you can' t see because you haven't had their experience. Every year thousands of girls like yourself get their hearts broken by some hot guy who just wants to use them and throw them away.
Trust your parents and save yourself a whole lot of sorrow.
2006-08-28 20:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by nightrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on lots of things. How old are you? Are you still living at home with your parents? Do you plan on staying at home for any significant length of time or are you ready to move out? Why don't your parents want you to see this guy? Can you work with them to change their minds? WIll they maybe agree to supervised time with you and him together in that way? How old is the guy? What has he said or done that bothers your parents?
2006-08-28 16:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i can i want to ask you to think about something for a minute. if you had a 6 or 7 year old little sister, and you were out in the yard and you saw danger coming, wouldn't you want to protect her from it? she would not see or comprehend the danger because she is just 6, but you are older, you've been in her situation, and you know there is danger.
this is what your parents are doing for you. they are years farther down the road of life, and they can see problems and dangers that you can't see or understand yet. so, i hope you will trust them and appreciate the love they are showing by trying to warn you of harm.
2006-08-28 16:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by georgia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm grown now but I've been in that situation. At the time I didn't understand why they wouldn't let me see this guy which I did anyways and let me tell you parents do know best. They have their reasons.
2006-08-28 16:45:57 · answer #6 · answered by desi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe sit down with your parents and calmly discuss the situation.Ask them their reasons for not liking this guy as it could be they are trying to stop you from getting hurt.It could be that there is an age gap and they are concerned regarding this.When they have told you there reasons you need to respect them,maybe explain how your feeling and suggest meeting this guy properly and try getting to know him.......Good luck.
2006-08-28 21:12:14 · answer #7 · answered by sarah y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts but you shouldn't see him. Your parents were teens once and they know what you are going through. They actually want you to be happy and safe. They must see (or know) something they don't like in this guy. (He will hurt you, take advantage of you, etc.) Don't listen to the clowns that encourage you to sneak out and see him. It will only lead to trouble.
Good luck!
2006-08-28 16:58:52 · answer #8 · answered by ssbn598 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are too young. Your parents love you and don't want to see you get hurt. If you are under 16 your should not have a real boyfrient anyway. Your parients know what is best for you. How are your grades?
2006-08-28 16:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old is he? If he is older than you I can see why they don't want you to see him. But if he is not ask in a nice way what they don't like about him. But make sure you always listen to what they say because they only care about you.
2006-08-28 16:45:51 · answer #10 · answered by purplepeddles 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋