What do you do when all you want to do is beat the crap out of them. my partners ex is being a real cow about their 2 girls and all he want to do is spend time with them and she want let him take them even for just 3 hrs in a week.
2006-08-28 16:38:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The thing is no matter what he says, you don't really know what happened to make her a 'cow' in the first place. She must not have been one to start with or he wouldn't have been with her in the first place.
I don't know if you have children yet, but we moms can be fiercely protective of our broods.
Funny thing is, I beg my ex to have something to do with our child, but he refuses then tells his girlfriends I won't let him. They brag about paying child support even though the wages are actually being garnished because he didn't pay on his own..... I could go on and on but the point is that you were not there when the fun was being had, so let them handle the results of it themselves and you just enjoy being with your man. Stop feeling sorry for that guy. I felt sorry for mine because he had an older child and was feeding me the same b.s. and I put my nose in like a know-it-all and then he did the same thing to me!
2006-08-28 16:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by Boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have any trouble with her ..in fact I get along well with her, she's kinda crazy and I don't like the way she educates the kids but ...I try to stay at margin of all problems....My boyfriend already feels frustrated enough for the way she is raising the kids , that he doesn't need me to cause another one with her, so I became the inter mediator, she calls me when she wants to know if we are picking the kids up and stuff. My advice...I know you love your husband but sometimes you have to stay out of their problems, if you express your feelings against her to him, that will just build more anger between them, and you could become the reason for what she doesn't let him see the kids....is she irrational?? Yes she might be, but let her be.
2006-08-28 16:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by fun 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not now, but in a previous relationship. A guy I dated had a daughter and the girl's mother was psycho. She followed me everywhere. worst of all, she was a horrible mother who was on the brink of neglecting her kids, but my bf couldn't get full custody even after 3 atempts in court. Most court systems seem to be bias toward mothers, even without investigation.
2006-08-28 16:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by mona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I've had troubles with my partners ex. She was dating his brother at that time (very sneaky) and told me time and time again that my boyfriend was still very special to her. I wanted to slap her in the face , but always could resist the temptation. She was so pathetic.
2006-08-29 00:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by loves_travelling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know where you're coming from. Just be the bigger person and let it go, she's not worth the energy it takes to get mad.
2006-08-28 16:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I did.........I confronted her about it and let her know that I wasn't scared of her, and now we are at least civil when we see each other.........Sometimes the confrontation isn't all we've dreamed it up to be..........
2006-08-28 16:42:20 · answer #6 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i JUST TAKE THEM SKYDIVING AND INSTEAD OF A PARACHUTE IN THE CONTAINER I PACK IT WITH COW POO.MAKES FOR AN EXCITING JUMP
2006-08-28 16:43:18 · answer #7 · answered by Iceman 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
avoid them if at all possible
2006-08-28 16:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by Dwight D J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AVOID PEOPLE LIKE THIS
2006-08-28 16:46:10 · answer #9 · answered by Terry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋