ok i met this guy 3 weeks ago. i have a friend whos cousin came up with one of his friends, thats how we met. anyways to the story. hes really cute and smart and i just like him. we spent 2 days together with everyone and the 4 of us went bowling and talked and did stupid stuff like normal. we all spent the night at her house (my friend) when i started to realize i kinda like him. i dont know the next time hes coming up (he lives 2 hours away), i dont know if he would even remember me or if he even liked me. im not sure on anything, and i dont want to get my heart broken. any advice? sorry if this was confusing.
2006-08-28 16:36:38 · 4 answers · asked by temperforever 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im really shy so calling him would be hard and i kinda have a phobia with phones..i know really weird
2006-08-28 17:00:36 · update #1
I think its OK to be interested in a guy a couple hours away. Sometimes, when you keep in control of your emotions, those are the best friends.
Here's what to do. Ask your cousin, or whoever knows him, his email address. Then write him a very ordinary email. Tell him that you really had a good time when he was here and decided that since most guys aren't like him that you would like to email him to stay in touch. Then let him decide if he wants to stay in touch. Also let him know that you like guys at your town and let him know that you want to be friends and he can keep his girlfriends. Over time, you will either learn that he isn't interested in you, or he is. Then he has to figure out how to come see you more often. Whatever you do, don't give up on the guys in your town. You are young and need to experience guys to determine your likes and dislikes. A long distance boyfriend only creates frustration. Just be his friend. Smile and be polite. Good Luck
2006-08-28 17:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't make the 1st move. for a guy to have fun wit a girl is something noramal. but if he shows any signs then go for it
2006-08-28 23:43:02 · answer #2 · answered by poison ivy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand wat ur sayin, things like that get complicated sometimes, all u need to do is look deeper into things that u did together and if anything important stood out, or u could like get his phone number or something so u can get to know him better, maybe somethin can happen then, talk to him more maybe
2006-08-28 23:41:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't even think about trying to be his girl.. it won't work.
you both are too young for a "long distance"
just be friends. you'll thank me later
2006-08-28 23:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋