Would you say this person still cares about me?

Question

Me and this person started out as friends. One day things just lead other places and we wind up doing the wild thing and this lead to us being in commitied relationship. We was like 2 peas in a pod then all the sudden this person needed space and we started seeing less and less of one anohter. Eventually we had a fall out and decided to be friends. This person calls me every day like clock work to check on me. When i see this person out at the club i see this person with another person of persuation and it is alsways someone different. Sometimes they are too close for comfort. The other day i go drunk and called and left a message that i still loved this person and then they started calling me more often. They did not mention that they still love me. Just behavior change like they are more nicer and calls me more often and willing to spend more time with me. What do you think of all this.

Answer 1

they probally like you but isn't sure for another serious relationship with you. jus give them time. you'll have to wait and see what happens.

Answer 2

Well I can tell you for a fact that sometimes people have different ways of expressing feelings for others. Even if he don't tell you he could still be feeling it . You're best bet is just to come out and ask him how he feels about you . And if he can't tell you by talking don't shy away from him. Sit him down and tell him that you want to try an exercise with him . Give him a pad of paper, a blue, and a red pen . Ask him to write you a letter to let you know what is going through his head . Every time he thinks that he is going to talk about his feelings he should use the red pen . And every time that he wants to talk about friendship he should use the blue pen . Either one of three things are going to happen for you .
1. He is going to laugh at you, in which case he still knows that you can make him smile and that is never a bad thing.
2. You are going to see more blue then anything.
3. You could just find out everything that you want to know and a lot more .
I am not positive if this is going to help you at all, but I hope that is does. And if you find out something that hurts, just remember that he is only one guy . There are so Manny people in this world, set you're sights high and you will find the special someone who has his sights set at the same place . Best of luck and I hope that everything works out for you .

Answer 3

Maybe this person still cares about you, or it could be that they just want to know you care.

I remember my past romances, and sometimes after doing "the wild thing" it would get less and less, the attention, the times we saw each other ect, and they would call, and sometimes want to see me. I realized it was not that important, and it was not growing, it was "GOING"

Sometimes, people like that, call, but they are calling others like you, that they "KNEW" PROBABLY THEY ARE JUST CURIOUS TO SEE IF YOU WILL DROP everything for them.. or if the fires are still burning inside, and you know that it is not the same on their part,,

IF YOU WENT FROM A COMMITED RELATIONSHIP.. TO JUST PHONE CALLS,,you have been demoted, and they are not just going to wake up madly in love with you.

That is EGO, and ego for some is just an immature trait, and they are not emotionally mature enough for one relationship for very long, and that is not wrong..
that is just where they are,,

good luck
if they want YOU,, YOU WILL KNOW IT,,just don't invent the thought in your mind,, because that is the only place it will be real,

Answer 4

Why do u keep referring to this as "this person". it seems like you are not capable of a full loving relationship if you keep referring to someone u "care about" as this person. many gay people in the closet talk in a non gender way, is this the issure with u?
Your question makes you seem to immature to have a "real relationship" with this person or anyone else,