I am a guy that is sexually attracted to other guys. Anyways I have a boyfriend on the downlow. He never comes around anyone I know because I am afraid they might find out I am gay and dating a guy. He dont know I am trying to hide it because he meet break up with me. I **** him all the time and now I got him turn on to me. He so turned on to me he even try to feel on me and public but I try to avoid that by pushing him off of me really fast where no one can see. What should I do. Can I live a double life like this with out getting caught. Thaks alot yahoo answers I love you all
2006-08-28 16:06:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Either come out or let him go. You have to think about how unfair you are being to him. But as for the public stuff I hate that! Gay or straight!
2006-08-28 16:13:54 · answer #1 · answered by Justme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this problem a few months ago. My 'secret' bf was touching me in public places and I had to stop it. People knew he was gay and I thought if people found out I hung out with him they'd think I was gay. It's sad that people think like that. People think gay guys can't have straight guy friends and straight guys can't have gay guy friends! Anyways, my 'mate' outed me and I was the talk of the town for weeks afterwards. Most people aren't bothered at all but I get the occasional **** who's got something to say!
It's hard to keep it a secret. My advice is to tell him he can't touch you in public because people don't take too kindly to it, and someone might get hurt because there are a lot of narrow-minded people out there. Explain to him you don't want people to find out you're gay, and that's why you can't just introduce him to friends as they'll wonder 'how the hell do they know each other??!!'.
2006-08-28 16:15:24 · answer #2 · answered by ©Wayne© 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It potential he's a geek, no longer gay. various human beings use the term 'gay' as a ordinary term to point 'i do no longer like it'. i think it somewhat is how 'watching vast Bang thought' grew to alter into 'gay'.
2016-09-30 02:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by matlock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just "come out?" If you prefer men then go for it. It seems to me that you're cheating yourself out of happiness if you deny what you really want.
I can't exactly understand your situation, being that I'm hetero., but that just makes the most sense to me.
Good luck with whatever you decide though! =)
2006-08-28 16:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by it's me! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the small towns and move into the big city really quick!
2006-08-30 22:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by elymendoza1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP him quick. If you are out and he doesn't want to be then let him go. You don't not need to get yourself involved with someone like that. What if you start getting serious feelings for him..and he can't show it to no one else
2006-08-28 16:11:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like the term "down low". It sounds like you are cheating not only on him but on yourself also. It's like you have to sneak around and can cost you your sanity if you keep doing it.
2006-08-28 16:12:45 · answer #7 · answered by grumpyfiend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live a double life
2006-09-01 10:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by evening_dewpoint 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you'll get caught eventually, but enjoy it while you can
2006-08-28 16:50:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be very carefull dude!
and always use a condom
2006-08-28 16:10:23 · answer #10 · answered by ☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋