Married for years... love my man and he's plenty romantic... I just really miss that feeling. Or is something you only get to feel once?
2006-08-28 15:52:52 · 17 answers · asked by alohajen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can have those feeling again, they just need rekindling, I have been married for nearly 25 years and my husband still makes me fall in love with him over and over again. I think the secret is spending some real quality time with eachother and getting out of the everyday rut stuff. Do something new together(maybe things you use too do) but got caught up in the day to day drama, there are so many things you can do here, even going through old photos can really bring back some of those strong feelings, or even your favorite songs that remind you of eachother. Life just gets so busy sometimes it's hard to really connect. I would look into the ultimate emotional and physical seduction you can come up with and use it on him. Those feelings will come back stronger and more rivetting because they have had such a long time to become flavored. Good luck!
2006-08-28 16:19:08 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is in many stages, you have the initial falling in love stage, and as you go on, you choose to love. Love is a choice, not an emotion. Feelings can from one moment to the next, and to rely on feelings as a gage on whether or not you stay with someone is a sign of immaturity. Try to let him know that you will stand by him, and keep the romance alive by looking at your behaviour...in other words...keep surprising him...and don't get caught up in that falling in love feeling...just realize that good men are hard to find. Work on keeping him and concentrate on doing things that make him happy. It can't be all about you, love is selfless.
2006-08-28 16:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by Marilyn C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You naturally don't feel the same way now as you did when your love was new, because it isn't new now. It's grown past that stage. Your love has a richness and depth of understanding now that you didn't feel then, so stop complaining and go kiss him.
2006-08-28 16:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that feeling mellows over the years into a nice comfortable feeling. A feeling of security and companionship. It is a shame to lose the excitement of youth, but it is also nice to feel the deep, warm security of maturity.
2006-08-28 15:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i recommend you that you and ur husband must try to live that moments the made you both to fall in love, something like come back to the beginning of relationship, try to remember why you love him and why you felt in love. Well bye good look!
2006-08-28 16:00:38 · answer #5 · answered by Beloved 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try just the two of you getting away on a small vacation just you two alone to enjoy each others company eat at romantic suppers act as if your just dating again >> and most of all have fun
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2016-12-05 20:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by holtslander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch 3 love movies every day for 2 weeks It will come back
2006-08-28 16:05:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you could try something out of the ordinary that you both like or one likes but the other sacrafices and does anyways make sure to balance the last one out
2006-08-28 16:13:06 · answer #9 · answered by alex h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad used to say
Absence makes the heart grow fonder
2006-08-28 15:56:10 · answer #10 · answered by Caffiene Junkie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋