Have The Feminists really ruined it for us guys?

Question

Seems in years past guys could get younger women. The reverse is true today. And, nearly everywhere I go, I feel like I'm in a war - er, actually, I feel that I'm being attacked with excessive epithets like "Sir" after every sentence. Somehow, I feel that the Feminists are behind it. I have my reasons. What do you think? Feminists are free to reply as well; but one characteristic of this new wave of feminism is that it operates behind the scenes; so I doubt I'll get any of their responses.

Answer 1

Sorry you dummies don't get it. When you get really old, or at least old as viewed by the youth worshippers, young women call you "Sir" in a certain tone. It is a put-down and most of you women well know it.

There were no social injustices to be corrected. I am reminded of my nutty daughter. She was raised, er, battered and abused by her mother in another state. When she met her 2nd husband, she told him she would never cook for him, because any woman who cooks for her husband is his slave. He is a wimp, so he married her anyway, plus he is a good cook.

After they left the Air Farce, they moved to Amarillo. After a time, she became a Christian, one of those really pesty ones. After more time, she decided she wanted to have kids.

When she got pregnant, as the time got closer, she became very maternal, and decided she wanted to stay home with her baby. Her husband told her, yeah, if they budgeted, he could support them all.

As the time got even closer, she suddenly realized it would make no sense for him to cook for them before he went to work, then come home from work and have to cook and wash dishes and clean the house while she sat in the house on her rear-end all day.

So, she told him she understood she'd have to start doing cooking and cleaning and such goodies, but she really wanted to be home with her baby. He reminded her he had promised to do all that stuff, but she told him she had learned that made no sense.

After some more time, she suddenly realized those women historically HAD NOT BEEN OPPRESSED AND SUBJUGATED AND ENSLAVED, as she had been taught and as she had believed. They also preferred to be home with their kids, and were only doing what was totally reasonable and logical in doing the housework while he was off earning the living all day.

As far as the jobs going to the men, the women understood this was necessary to support the women.

Today, you dummies also believe men are responsible for supporting women and kids, you just think they are supposed to somehow be able to do it while women get the good jobs first. You are nuts!

So when are you going to demand the need to register for Selective Service like your alleged equals?

Hey, OP, paradise lies just 1 inch south of the border! Vive Mexico. If you survive to retire, it is the place to go. American men are viewed as the best husbands anywhere in the world except in the US.

I am 64, and visibly 64, and I can tell you I have had teen-agers hitting on me. You do have to be careful, they also have wicked women, but life there is different.

I will say don't blame boogy women feminists. Most women in the US are feminists, no matter how they deny it.

As far as the bogus statement that this is just temporary adjustment due to correction of (nonexistent) social injustices, the leaders of the feminists announced in 1993, that the feminization of America was complete. So, has there been any adjustment to deal with men's special needs? Har, har. Today 99% of women won't even admit that men have any problems, they just make problems. A man is not allowed even to express any complaint no matter how extreme the outrage, such as eliminating all all-male colleges while keeping over 90 all-women colleges. Like not registering for Selective Service.

Answer 2

If women call you 'sir' it's because you are old enough to be their father and they are showing you respect. Could be that these young women just aren't interested in YOU. Feminism may hinder your schemes by having taught young women they can't be bought like a trophy. Other than that, feminism doesn't have much to do with this situation. Also you speak of feminism as an underground club that corrupts young women and then sends them out like spies to harass men. I have never had anything to do with any feminist group and yet, I have a few feminist attitudes. These are learned through cultural conditioning.

Answer 3

talking as a Christian lady, definite, i think of feminism went somewhat too a techniques. equivalent pay for equivalent artwork is large of direction yet i've got not got self belief females could serve interior the militia. i've got self belief a woman's actual conflict is fought at residing house elevating God fearing, regulation abiding and efficient electorate that honor their mom and father and Worship the Lord. Abortion is an abomination as is homosexuality in accordance to God's regulation. a woman became meant to be secure and venerated by using the male ... the place is chivalry? Is it out of trend now for a youthful suitor to open the vehicle door for his date? How long has it been for the reason that a guy carried groceries for a woman he does not understand? How approximately giving that pregnant female your seat on the bus? OFF the soapbox now! sturdy question!

Answer 4

Feminists are not like that, just crazy, man hating women. Sir is not a bad title, it denotes a knight in the UK.
I see older men with younger women all the time. It seems like a natural force. I see too many women putting careers ahead of family, and then waiting till they are almost too old to get pregnant to try. Younger women have smoother pregnancies, and therefore are more predispositioned genetically, and naturally to be more attractive as a mate.
However, the DNA in a man's sperm starts to deteriorate after the age of 35, loosing it's genetic strength.
Now, and don't anyone hit me, in studies, it's been proven that women are VERY picky about picking a mate, and therefore wait longer to find one. Men just go with whos best. So that also factors in.
I know the idea of family and one mate seems nice, but I honestly think a couple should be together till it doesn't work anymore, then move on. It is diffucult to find the perfect match, but not the best match a the time.
I myself like older men, but I'm 21, I'm getting to old to hook one! I think I just have issues with my father, but I certainly don't want to be with anyone like him.
My rant is finished.
It's not feminist, just crazy women, and we don't all run the show, we think it's you men who do!!! ;)

Answer 5

What they have done is widen the choices you have. Would you rather have a woman who contributes an income to your household and stays out of your hair because she has her own life and is confident enough to let you do what you want to do, or do you want a woman who just wants to live off some man? More often than not young chicks hook up with guys way older than them b/c that guy has $$ and she wants some of it. I hope you enjoy paying for sex. Some men get it for free.

Answer 6

Well to me, it seems like you should try to get yourself more interested into women who are more closer to your age, due to the perverts that prey on young females. That may be the reason why you get these negative responses. And, it has nothing to do with the "Feminists". We are tired of men who are old enough to be our daddies bothering us all the time. It is like an obsession with older men foaming at the mouth and stalking us. When I see stuff like that, I wonder that of his age, would he be like that towards my daughter too, because I am so young?

Answer 7

I don't think feminism or feminists have ruined anything. They've done what they set out to do and still work hard every day to make an equal society. And isn't equality what we all strive for?

Answer 8

I don't think they have ruined anything. They just effected a division.
It is actually easier to find someone easy. It's all organized. If anything most crazy girls are empowered.

Have you seen girls gone wild? Ain't no feminists there.

You can see it any way you want.

Answer 9

Girl power!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What are you talking about, dude? I'm a pretty big feminist, and we deserve our rights, thank you very much. In fact, we're still not totally equal in society. What the hell does being called "Sir" have anything to do with it, and guys being able to date younger women? That still goes on? Dude, where are you coming from???

Answer 10

I have no idea what you're talking about. What does being called sir have to do with feminism? It could be you're getting older.