I found a man I truely love. He has asked me to marry him, I said yes with no hestation because I never doubted my love for him. I'm not doubting my love know but we fight over the stupidest little thing, I have begun to wonder if this is something that will get better with time or worst?? I still love him like the day I met him and he says he loves me but the fighting is driving us both crazy.. In oct. it will be year. He is only 19, in Nov. he will be 20 but he is very mature, I am 25 as of sept.1, with two children, he treats them like his.. And has asked if I would be willing to have another. After we get married he wants a baby. I know he loves me because I got hurt and was out of work for 3 months, no walking for 10 1/2 weeks and he took care of everything. He went from a life of freedom, to a life of total responsability. He says that don't bother him but deep down I like it really does. I try to do things to let him know I love him but lately its been hard.
2006-08-28 15:48:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sometimes you just go through a rough stage in the relationship. I have been with my husband a little over 2 years, and I would say 90% of the time, we get along great. But that other 10% we argue over stupid stuff. I don't think we have ever had a fight or fuss over something serious. Hang in there, I think it will get better. Just remember to keep the communications open.
Good luck!!!!
2006-08-28 15:55:09 · answer #1 · answered by sweetpeachiebear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am doing the same with my man right now we fight over every little thing and we are going to get married in 6 months but i don't think i can do it i am thinking it might get worst if he has me all the way so i hope you think long before you do this i am good luck girl
2006-08-28 15:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by carolea_lamblin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you make up with sex after every fight, truly forgive one another and then move onto the next argument but still love and care about each other then sure
2006-08-28 15:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by alias_47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 20 long time ago and I was very stupid incredibly stupid when I look back.
Man minimum 30 years old can make some mature and responsible decision.
Don't waist time enjoy life - don't get stack with @ssho@.
2006-08-28 15:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are soooo stupid! Are you any smarter than when you were 19 years old? Obviously not. You are just desperate because you are used meat and you found a guy who will do you and take care of you. Grow up!
2006-08-28 15:51:59 · answer #5 · answered by Professor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if not a marraige, lifetime friends have been united on earth between you two. if you don't like what i wrote, when you find yourself fighting, stop,! love each other, you must put a lid on the carrying on before you find yourselves really carrying on...
2006-08-28 15:56:19 · answer #6 · answered by lee f 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in a situation simular to yours but i've got a woman now that's out of this world. if you fight a lot then it's not right for you.
2006-08-28 15:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by joe_smo_red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to work on it, or you will push him away in time.everybody has there little spats,and I hope that this is all you 2 are doing,that away you just communicate and work it out.
2006-08-28 15:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what you fight about and what you are fighting for...if it is a fight to keep you guys together then YES...but if it is something else...then NO....
2006-08-28 15:51:23 · answer #9 · answered by hannah062199 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fighting is not good, not good at all!
2006-08-28 15:53:02 · answer #10 · answered by birdsdafly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋