well i had a misscarrige last year at age 20.its been a year since i misscarriged my twins.my docter said i might have to wait two more years.now i only have 1year left before trying to get pregnat again.can i ignore him and get pregnat?what will happen if i do?
2006-08-28 15:39:25 · 12 answers · asked by ElEgAnTFiShIe 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
She is once more fabricating this crap apparently she thinks it's entertaining for us... Here are a just a few of the questions she has asked since she joined in July of this year...
well a year ago i had a misscarrige and now i find out i'm not pregnat.i'm thinking of going to collage with my boyfriend.i mean haveing a misscarrige at 17 and figiring your not pregnat at age 18really herts.please cheer me up.
1 month ago - 15 answers
how do i get pregnat?i turned 19 a few days ago.but how do i get pregnat?
4 weeks ago - 13 answers
well me and my bf are in collage.we decided to have sex.now i'm throwing up.i took a pregnacy test and i was pregnat.but i can't trust pregnacy tests so i went to the docters today.they said i'm not pregnat.who and what should i belive?
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3 weeks ago
okay.tomorow i'll make an appointment for ultra sound or should i have a blood test?
3 weeks ago - 13 answers
my bf wants to have sex with me.well for me i don't want to!but he dose!i don't want kids until i graudate from college!is it worth saying yes a having sex with my hott nice bf?
2 weeks ago - 40 answers
She has a real strange calendar I'd say... Stop indulging her!
2006-08-29 17:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by Rick R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your doctor told you to wait 2 years, then he had a good reason. Sit down and talk to him and ask him why, and what the repercussions of your getting pregnant at this time are. Perhaps he was suggesting that you wait until you are alittle more mature to handle the possibility of another multiple birth. And since you have lost one, the odds are greater that you will have another. Many multiple births carry the threat of premature birth and serious birth defects and conditions such as CP or blindness as a result of prematurity. How exactly are you going to support and care for possibly two teenagers (they grow up hon, and you will only be in your 30's when they are in high school) with serious learning disabilities, physical and mental handicaps and possibly early death from undeveloped lungs.
Part of parenting is sacrificing what you want for the greater good of the child involved. You sound like you are immature and selfish. Maybe that's what your doctor was trying to protect any offspring you reproduce from.
2006-08-28 23:28:16 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, sorry to hear that. I was pregnant at age 20 and gave birth prematurely, I had to have a c-section and the stupid doctor messed me up so now I have to have c-sections for all of my pregnancies...BUT i had to wait 1 year to get pregnant again so I could heal. I never heard of waiting 3 years, but everybody is different. Maybe try to get a 2nd opinion. You don't want to hurt yourself if you really do have to wait 3 years and then get pregnant too soon! I'd get a second opinion, i did.
2006-08-28 22:48:56 · answer #3 · answered by speedy_me18 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister in law miscarried and was told to only wait 6 months. She tried again barely 6 mos later, got preggo, and just had a healthy beautiful baby. Talk to your doc. If he/she's being lame, try another doctor! I don't know why it would take 2 years to heal.
2006-08-29 00:28:09 · answer #4 · answered by ikikochan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always say follow your Dr's advice. If unsure about this advice then I would go aand see somebody else a new Dr and get a 2nd opinion on this. Better to be safe then sorry. Good luck
2006-08-28 22:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs Magoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry to hear of your lost and the other girl on here,i would prob go with getting a second opinion,my thought was maybe he is thinking of emotional things as far as if you could handle another miscarriage if that would happened,i hope things go well for you ,take care.
2006-09-01 19:26:16 · answer #6 · answered by annie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the reason for waiting two years? Is there medical problems you haven't listed?
Seek a second opinion.
2006-08-28 23:16:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is different i lost 10 babies by miscarrage trying to have back to back pregancies when i finally waited a little while like my dr told me to i had a baby girl she is now 4 some times i think dr does know best
2006-08-28 22:44:43 · answer #8 · answered by sweetone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best to follow the doctors orders. Get a second opinion frm another Doc. and take it frm there.
2006-08-29 03:23:04 · answer #9 · answered by Pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look my second wife miscarried and that next year she got pregnant with my son James so do it when your body says you can. Doctors don't always know what is best for your body or for you do what you think is okay.
2006-08-28 23:40:53 · answer #10 · answered by keith_r83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋