2006-08-28 15:31:06 · 24 answers · asked by ruk1127 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Well, it's not really COMMITTED on one's part if they're kissing other people!
2006-08-28 15:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by Katlyn ♥ Disney 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love your partner, why would you want to kiss another person? I would suggest steering clear of ANYTHING beyond friendship. If you feel yourself drawn to another person physically or find yourself "connecting" mentally or spiritually then you probably want to even avoid friendship. Why put yourself in a bad situation?
**I think the bigger question here is...what is going on?? Why would someone in a committed relationship kiss someone else? Is there a problem with the relationship? Is there a problem with the person smooching other people? People who "cheat" tend to have a reason. There is either a problem within the relationship or the person "cheating" has his or her own issues that need to be dealt with.
2006-08-28 16:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by starrzfan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a commited relationship, and do not know the terms of that commitment, you should be committed!
You simply do not enter into a contract without understanding all the small print! You and your partner had beter define what cheating is in YOUR relationship. No one else can say what's cheating, without knowing the rules you're playing by in the first place. If you don't know them, how the heck will you know when you've broken them?
2006-08-28 15:57:15 · answer #3 · answered by LazlaHollyfeld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the kind of kiss. A little meaningless peck between friends, probably not. Making out with a co-worker in the dark alley behind your building, yes.
It also depends on your partner. Some people are extremely possessive and can't stand their partner to even hug other people.
2006-08-28 15:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by keiko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-08-28 15:37:13 · answer #5 · answered by therego2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the lips? Yes. On the neck? Yes.
Kissing anybody anywhere aside from the forehead and cheek -- or belly, if they're pregnant -- I would consider cheating.
2006-08-28 15:35:17 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Myrkr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, yes and yes. Did I say yes? Anything romatically engaging outside who you are committed to IS cheating!
2006-08-28 15:39:01 · answer #7 · answered by dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely it's cheating. You're betraying your relation's trust. How would you feel if you contracted something like herpes (or worst) and then spread it to your committed partner?
2006-08-28 15:43:21 · answer #8 · answered by swm_seeks_sf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm yeah.
you stated that you were in a "committed relationship" which obviously means you are involved in a monogamous relationship. i suggest you have a talk with your partner and see where you both really stand.
- monahh *
2006-08-28 15:51:09 · answer #9 · answered by monah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the intend of the kissing is to get physical pleasure or sexual excitement, then it is cheating. (And if that is not the purpose, you would not be bothering to do it)
2006-08-28 15:36:04 · answer #10 · answered by dewcoons 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋