how are we girls ever suppose to know if you like us. why cant you grow some balls and just tell us. instead of playing stupid games. like come on. but if any guys would like to give me some hints on how im suppose to know these things that would be great :)
2006-08-28 15:23:08 · 4 answers · asked by dancinggurl46 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
guys dont want to get shut down, so we play a bit until we are pretty sure that we have a good shot. Security is a big issue with guys and not much is worse than getting shutdown. We want to make a move but we usually wont unless we get some positive feed back from you first.
2006-08-28 15:35:11 · answer #1 · answered by pontiac_stephen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing that you think some guy likes you but he wont say anything for sure,...right? OK do this,...try the cold shoulder approach, i don't mean for you not to talk to him anymore,..just not as much. show more attention towards your friends for the next few days and see how he acts. that is one way of doing it,..another would be to approach him and you be the aggressor. there is nothing wrong with the girl making the first move. try to find out what he plans to do on a certain day and act as though you planned on going there also,{such as a party or ballgame, whatever} since you both plan on going to the same place or doing the same thing,...maybe he would want to go together. that's a few ideas, hope one of them help.
2006-08-28 15:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by juslookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different, i would say rejection is a big part of it and shyness too, there are some guys who have no inhibitions and some who are just too shy for their own good. But if you like a guy why can't you take the lead and ask him out... Its not a mans world anymore and i think most guys would be plesently suprised if you made the first move :-)
2006-08-28 15:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by Richard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are shy, I am. Picture going up to somebody you are hot for, you are putting all your pride on the line cuz she can say Get Lost and worse, she will tell all her friends. Has she been nice? That might mean nothing. Nobody wants to get rejection. From a guy, believe me, we all wish the ladies were easier to read.
2006-08-28 15:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by jxt299 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋